She doesnt understand

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Originally Posted by Skepta

I don't see why you need to go abroad to a country that doesn't really know about football, you should try get into West Ham accademy or something, but yeah plenty of more fish in the sea you'll find someone out there.

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Cos u don't get scorlarships in England

i say go for it XX i would

You could get into under 18s if you're good though then go onto being a proffesional, you should try out some "junior" teams, since your girlfriend is being difficult.

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Originally Posted by Skepta

You could get into under 18s if you're good though then go onto being a proffesional, you should try out some "junior" teams, since your girlfriend is being difficult.

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Why should he have to adjust his lifes ambitions and such just for her?

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Originally Posted by Havoline

If you come back a profesional footballer shell come running back in seconds.

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I agree you should go and do what you feel is best but I gaurantee that if u come back a pro footballer then she will want u.

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Originally Posted by K-Lash

Been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now, and ive just been given an opportunity to go to America for 4 years to study in a unviersity and do a soccer scolarship. Its 4 years i know but she says that she loves me and doesnt want me to go but if i do then she wont be there when i come back.


Why wont she understand that if i go and do well i can become professional and make all of our lives better.

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if she loves you then she should be able to wait, instead of giving you an ultimatum. its not like as if u cant visit her or vice versa.

Some of my freinds went off and did soccer scolarships in Wales.. I'm sure they offer them in England?

And good for her, would you seriosly want to wait for a partner for four years

Americans can't play football so don't go.

Exactly like everyone else says
If she loves you she will wait
Tell her you will call her often and she should support your future not ruin it
If she said that you won't have her when you get back she's being extremly selfish and you can do better x

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Originally Posted by K-Lash

Been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now, and ive just been given an opportunity to go to America for 4 years to study in a unviersity and do a soccer scolarship. Its 4 years i know but she says that she loves me and doesnt want me to go but if i do then she wont be there when i come back.


Why wont she understand that if i go and do well i can become professional and make all of our lives better.

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If she doesn't see that letting you go would be the best thing for you then she obviously is just being selfish. Tell her that you want to go and if she loves you she would be able to wait, it's not like you won't be able to visit eachother.