She doesnt understand

[Disaronno]

Been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now, and ive just been given an opportunity to go to America for 4 years to study in a unviersity and do a soccer scolarship. Its 4 years i know but she says that she loves me and doesnt want me to go but if i do then she wont be there when i come back.


Why wont she understand that if i go and do well i can become professional and make all of our lives better.

[Nemo]

Not a very nice girlfriend if shes making you decide between her and your future :s

Forget her is all i can say if she thinks like that.

[Toughened]

Education is always more important.
Forget about her and if all goes well you can come back and start fresh.

[brandon]

She's not worth it, you'll feel like a mug if she dumps you at a later date, knowing you had a decent chance and you turned it down for her.

[Havoline]

If you come back a profesional footballer shell come running back in seconds.

[Hated]

Kill her

[Japan]

I agree with everyone else. She is being selfish, and is stopping you from reaching your full potential. And besides, she might end up dumping you at a later date anyway.

[Yoshimitsui]

Most likely because 4 years is long time. If you think about how much you like each other, a few months even weeks can be a long time to not see one another. Imagine how you would feel if she was the one to be leaving and how upset you would be.

After so long people will want to move and a relationship can become impractical, especially at a young age. You need to sit down and talk about it and care for one another's feelings.

[RockyHorror]

She's not worth it, you'll feel like a mug if she dumps you at a later date, knowing you had a decent chance and you turned it down for her.

I agree with this completely. She shouldn't make you choose.

[J0SH]

I don't see why you need to go abroad to a country that doesn't really know about football, you should try get into West Ham accademy or something, but yeah plenty of more fish in the sea you'll find someone out there.