Is a homosexual affair harder to deal with?

I'd be annoyed if it was with a girl. :)

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Originally Posted by Lewis

Just as bad as each other, no matter the gender. Cheating is cheating.

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I agree. The core of each situation is that it is cheating. It would be hard to deal with both situations.

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Originally Posted by Kardan

Cheating is cheating in my books. I'd consider all possible situations as bad as each other I guess.

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Originally Posted by Inseriousity.

Would still suck.

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Originally Posted by Lewis

Just as bad as each other, no matter the gender. Cheating is cheating.

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I understand that cheating would suck and stuff so let's just say your partner falls in love with someone of the same sex. Do you think you'd deal with it any differently than if it was a man?

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Originally Posted by buttons

id be more forgiving if it was with a girl. i think the reason you'd feel worse if it was with the opposite sex and you didn't know your partner was bisexual is because you might then think they're secretly homosexual and so their relationship with you has been fake.

is it different for guys tho? if your gf cheated on you with another girl, would that be a bigger deal than if she went with a guy? what about gay people who's partner goes for the opposite sex?

just read other replies, seems guys think it's the same if their girl goes with another girl. fair nuf.

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This was the conclusion in a discussion earlier too. Something to do with natural instincts and stuff, that men compete with other men to provide or whatever whereas women don't see other women as competition. There were other reasons but I can't really remember

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Originally Posted by Skandair

I'd be annoyed if it was with a girl. :)

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Does this mean you wouldn't be annoyed if it was another guy like you? Which would make you more annoyed?

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Originally Posted by Jellyfish

Does this mean you wouldn't be annoyed if it was another guy like you? Which would make you more annoyed?

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Oops missed the 'more'! I'd feel sadder if it was an affair with a female.

I think it is worse yes if they are gay themselves as it isn't just that they fell in love with another woman, it's that the entire relationship was false to begin with making all of those memories a facade. For years of your life to be spent with somebody and turn out to be false would be devastating.

its worse yh

they're not being faithful to you or their sexuality~

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Originally Posted by Jurv

its worse yh

they're not being faithful to you or their sexuality~

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it kinda faithful to their sexuality idk

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Originally Posted by Skandair

it kinda faithful to their sexuality idk

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i meant by staying with you and leading you on

but idk its quite an awkward one because they might be confused about their sexuality

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Originally Posted by Jellyfish

I understand that cheating would suck and stuff so let's just say your partner falls in love with someone of the same sex. Do you think you'd deal with it any differently than if it was a man?



This was the conclusion in a discussion earlier too. Something to do with natural instincts and stuff, that men compete with other men to provide or whatever whereas women don't see other women as competition. There were other reasons but I can't really remember



Does this mean you wouldn't be annoyed if it was another guy like you? Which would make you more annoyed?

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It'd be as bad either way - I see no difference.

I've actually had guys leave me for women but I'm around the age where people who want to experiment finally decide if they want to carry on with men or go towards women. Its really flexible really cause the world is your oyster and you can always change your mind. I mean a lot of men at the age of 50 who have had kids and married a woman have came out as gay which can be a huge impact for the family.

My advice is that in this day and age you really gotta be aware of what could suddenly happen and try to prepare for it. It may never happen but no harm having a backup plan or two.