the biggest mistake is you getting a girlfriend, because no matter how hard you try.. your heart will always belong to rick astley.
now, all jokes aside..
TAP IT AND RUN IN TRUE DARRIS STYLE.
you expected that from me ryan, didnt you?
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the biggest mistake is you getting a girlfriend, because no matter how hard you try.. your heart will always belong to rick astley.
now, all jokes aside..
TAP IT AND RUN IN TRUE DARRIS STYLE.
you expected that from me ryan, didnt you?
Umm, i would usually say dont just automatically take someones word for it, even though she said she does this alot, what means to say she is going to do it to you, maybe she feels different about you?
I also think that Devon and Scotland are a long long long long long long long way away, and even though you see eachother, its hassle isn't it? If you feel a lot for this girl, then id stick with her. But from what you have said, I dont sense that you like her that much, maybe this is because you have only been with eachother 2 weeks, I dont know, but if you already have a negative view on the relationship ahead then I would say its not worth it.
This girl at work, do you have feelings for her? If you feel there is something that could happen then i'd go for it, you have nothing to lose do you ?
I do like her, quite alot. She's everything I've wanted for a while plus more. :P Camping trip was cancelled, I'm sure I said. She might be seeing me when I'm up in Liverpool, but god knows. Should be interesting.Quote:
Originally Posted by LeahBaby--Ox
I spoken to her (my gf) last night on the phone, and with alot of hesitation I just came out and said it. She explained about how her auntie doesn't even know her that well, since they've only met 3-4 times and that the situation between my best mate and her was ENCOURAGED by her auntie. That definetly put my mind to ease, since I do have my suspicions about her family in Scotland and in Devon... Seems a bit of rivalry. We have the trust, I trust her fullyyy, all her mates are mostly guys and I don't think she'd ever do anything with any of them (and since she's known them, she hasn't).Quote:
Originally Posted by MissAlice
Ano what you're saying about liking someone else, but a guy is allowed a crush... Especially in his teens. :P If she liked someone else and she told me, in all honesty, I would tell her that if she wants to then it's her life and decision, not mine. I didn't lose trust, I just got really confused being in the crossfire of so many facts and opinions that it got frustrating. I stepped back with her last night and we're ok. :D
I expected that more than I expect the world to end in 2012. Oh yeah, did you see that guy on X Factor last night, singing Rick Astley? I thought to myself, "Oh god, the internet will be going wild" LOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by Breakfloor
That's what I thought too Glam, and I didn't take her word for it, I just weighed it all out and it didn't make any sense at all so I didn't know what to think... Devon and Scotland isn't a long way, especially when I can get a house in Scotland (I love my uncle) + I might be going uni there. Distance has never been a big thing for me, it used to when I was younger but now to me, it's just another element of a relationship, like arguments are.Quote:
Originally Posted by Glamour
I do like her, alot, but the fact her auntie said all that and I assumed she known her all her life (she hardly knows her except from when she goes down to devon for 2 weeks every year) so I've been set straight. :P
The girl at work, at first I thought it was something but... nah, I think we just get along well and it was just a little teen crush. I was thinking about it today when I was talking to her and I'm not sure if I would go out with her. She's a nice girl sure, but I doubt I would...
Anyway, cheers for the advice guys, it's actually helped quite a bit. Charz! <3
You're in quite a predicament here.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pyroka
I'll try to be as easy as possible. As you've said, her mum pulled you aside and she's had the past experiance of leading people on, and trust is a key in the relationship, but from experiance 2 weeks is not enough, to fully trust and understand the girl, with dating. (Unless you've known them a while before hand), but dating the girl in work can also cause hasslte, lets say you break up with her, you're both still working there - what if you start to hate eachother? You'd be risking your job due to the arguements that might break out in work.
I can't tell you: Go with the one in Scotland, but personally - I'd just leave them both, and wait for someone new. Plenty of fish in the sea.
As I have been in a situation similar to this, which came out with the worst outcome.
I had gone to up Nottingham to meet her, as we were going to some Holiday Park for a few days, when I had arrived her parents said she'd gone out somewhere. I had gone out to look for her (I know Nottingham quite well. >_>) Then some girl previously had been texting me, I had ignored, by the time I had found her she was with some other boy, holding hands. :(.
Haven't spoken to her since.
Just to clarify I'm not going to say your girlfriend will do this, just think about it.
you've only known her 2weeks?
i say this cause i care about you..
don't.
it's proper annoying dating people far away, you might say it's not a problem, but it will be when you go back to school, and you're working weekends -it gets difficult. i had problems visiting some guy like an hour a way.
also the cousins mum is probs just saying it so she isnt like going to get hurt by you or something, like telling you lies or something.
relationships can be hard, and distance makes them even harder so no point, try this girl at work even if she sounds easy to me. get your leg round something init.
sorry im tired. x
tbh you're guaranteed to get some, don't chuck it away for a "just in case". I'm not a fan of long distance 'cause I done it before with a chick in Wales, and all we did when we met up was have a load of sex then get back on the train pretty much lol. Suited me fine but I didn't like the fact that for however long it was between meeting I could do nothing, so it wasn't for me and I ended it. But yeah if you are her holiday fling then what's the problem? You'll get some action out of it and then maybe feel bad for a while until the next girl comes along. If not, you might actually have a half decent relationship out of it, so you got nothing to lose by going along with it.
You're very trusting, I wish you good luck :)
The fact that you made this thread says it all, it shows how much you care about your relationship with the girl in Scotland, and how much you want it to work, so all I can do is wish you good luck and to stick with her.