Jealousy in relationships

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Originally Posted by ItsSharon

Ah well biggest problem. Think about it this way, he must adore you, if he's going out wit u!

ur lovely - if he can't see dat I'll come smash his face braaaaaaaap

Awww thanks Shazzy :D

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Originally Posted by buttons

not necessarily, trust me i'd know;)
if you let jealousy and paranoia get in the way you'll only push them away, if you've got no trust you shouldn't have a relationship.
i don't get really get jealous, if someone tries to make me they can forget about it. i actually get emotionally attached easy but normally when we're not together

That makes total sense, you're right, if I can't trust someone I shouldn't have a relationship. I usually trust, I think I just have irrational moments sometimes. I'm controlling it better now! :D

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Originally Posted by Richie

u nd nicki broke up? i j o k e

ermm u cant deal with it nd id say its alri to be a little jealous it just proves u love / like the person nd dnt wana lose them

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Originally Posted by Keri?!

I always get jealous :rolleyes:
I don't mean to and I hate how I do but like I'm usually always scared that I'm going to lose that person to someone else and because they mean alot to me, I don't want that to ever happen.

I'm too good to lose a person to someone else (H)
lol jk... but my fear of losing them probably does explain my occasional irrational moments!

Thanks for all the replies so far :D I'll +rep who I can!

Jealousy stems from having no trust in the person you love, if you have this issue you dump them.

im a pretty untrusting person nowadays (my 3 ex's made me that way) so i kinda dont trust any girl these days - therefore i cant get jealous anymore

Bit of jealousy is fun, but I think its important to trust someone.

It is natural to be jelous tbh, i used to get it when i first started going out with my boyfriend cause hes in a class full of girls so hes with them all the time and them dancing around him and flinging themselves all over him but i soon got over it tbh. Just think, if a guy is talking to another girl it doesnt matter, cause he picked you not her, thats what i kept on telling myself :)