Jealousy in relationships

[Melsia]

I think there's been a thread similar to this in the past but I couldn't find it and I wasn't sure so I thought I'd post it anyway!

I know many people get jealous in relationships - it's definitely a problem for me although I am improving a lot!

I was wondering how people on here who share this problem deal with it because I honestly don't know what the right thing to do is when I get it! Is there a right way to deal with it?

[Shar]

I don't think there's a proper way to deal with it...It's natural to be jealous, you can't stop it but if your boyfriend says he loves you and shows no feelings for anyone but you you've just got to trust him

[Hecktix]

I've had a really jealous girlfriend in the past, like beyond sane-jealous. She was a nutter.

[myke]

it's just natural to be jealous and speculate. i'm sometimes really bad at this lol and i think it effects the relationship!!!

[Shar]

I've had a really jealous girlfriend in the past, like beyond sane-jealous. She was a nutter.

Dude that's not advice ;ll

[Hecktix]

Dude that's not advice ;ll

OH WELL SORRY MISS MOD.

I will expandddd. It's gotta be hard being jealous all the time, what you need to do is look at it rationally - I mean 'cause most jealous thoughts are irrational lets face it. Look at it rationally, call yourself stupid for thinking such things and it should start going away.

[myke]

o dear lord didn't realise she was asking for advice LOL :|

urm i don't know, don't think there's much you can do, maybe try talking about it?

[Shar]

OH WELL SORRY MISS MOD.

I will expandddd. It's gotta be hard being jealous all the time, what you need to do is look at it rationally - I mean 'cause most jealous thoughts are irrational lets face it. Look at it rationally, call yourself stupid for thinking such things and it should start going away.

YOU BETTER BE -.-

Joke Oli xoxo

Edited by Garion (Assistant General Manager): Please do not post off-topic.

[Sharon]

Ah well biggest problem. Think about it this way, he must adore you, if he's going out wit u!

ur lovely - if he can't see dat I'll come smash his face braaaaaaaap

[buttons]

he must adore you, if he's going out wit u!

not necessarily, trust me i'd know
if you let jealousy and paranoia get in the way you'll only push them away, if you've got no trust you shouldn't have a relationship.
i don't get really get jealous, if someone tries to make me they can forget about it. i actually get emotionally attached easy but normally when we're not together