First Date

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Originally Posted by ArronMUFC

It's not confirmed yet. I thought Friday was ideal as we're both off from College, but she's working.

Btw +rep to all useful replies :)

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Dont wanna sound pesimistic, but she might be (judgin from ur last post) be leading you on. From experience, she says yes n everything then as the time comes closer they cancel for whatever erason. Except in my case they always replied to texts n we talked lots but yeah.

Either that or she is genuinely busy on that day and she just hasn't got any battery on her phone or whatever reason. Or just hasnt seem them, how long has it been since u sent it?

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Originally Posted by Bun

wait, what?



but ignoring that last bit if she's shy like you then just tell her you're shy, she will probably tell you the same and you won't have to worry about doing anything stupid because she's more likely to understand. i know girls don't appreciate when you start off too heavy but make sure she's your main focus all night, don't let her think you aren't that interested. when it comes to compliments, apart from the obvious "you look nice" (trust me this must be said or she might think you don't like what she's wearing), make them personal; such as "your legs look lovely in that dress" or "i love your eyes". this shows them that you really are focusing on them. good luck with it.

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obviously that was me getting a little excited thinking this would lead to us getting married haha! :) yeah, i know...

And nope. im gonna ring her after Misfits tonight.

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Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo

Dont wanna sound pesimistic, but she might be (judgin from ur last post) be leading you on. From experience, she says yes n everything then as the time comes closer they cancel for whatever erason. Except in my case they always replied to texts n we talked lots but yeah.

Either that or she is genuinely busy on that day and she just hasn't got any battery on her phone or whatever reason. Or just hasnt seem them, how long has it been since u sent it?

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So what shall I do?

Well i've sent texts but hardly got a good response. She's on facebook quite a bit like.

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- double post :(

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Originally Posted by ArronMUFC

So what shall I do?

Well i've sent texts but hardly got a good response. She's on facebook quite a bit like.

- double post :(

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Maybe shes in a bad mood? Or what i said?

Wouldnt recommend getting your hopes up before you've actually gone out with them, but just keep acting like normal rly, if it doesnt turn out well in the end, then **** happens, move on.

But of course thats me being pesimistic

I've never heard of pesimistic :(

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Originally Posted by ArronMUFC

I've never heard of pesimistic :(

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Thinking negatively basically

oh well. it's either she wants me to ring her to have a chat. she's ignoring me. her mates have said something.

ring her or something, ask her if she still wants to go ;D

This has fell through. She told me she liked a lad from her class so I just let it go.

However, I don't wanna sound like a manslag but I think I have another date lined up. She's been my friend for about 6 months until recently :)

Don't think about the future! Just take it one day at a time. Don't talk about getting married because that's er, a bit awkward.