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this might be long idk yet but i will probs babble on ]:

right so, when i was in london on saturday i got asked to go to this party. so me, my brother and about four others went and didnt really know anyone. yeah anyway, i got really drunk, as i do and got off with this lad. he's 21, at uni & i got honestly say he is the most fittest lad i have ever seen in my life ]: (wish i had a pic) he asked for my mobile number and all that, but i wouldnt give him it, but he got it somehow. yesterday he phoned me and we were on the phone for about 3hrs? then he added me to msn & asked me to go on cam. i wouldnt for ages and ages but i did in the end for some reason. he started so say how beautiful, how he was really falling for me and he wishes he lived closer :| he's got really friendly with my brother as well, and hes coming to stay in 3 weekss and i dont know what to doo ]: i really wanna stay single and i know it could never work cause i dont do the whole long distance thing but he is really really really sweet and well good lookinggggg ]: he also thinks im well older than i am, i never told him my age, he just assumed ]: all his friends have been telling me how much of a 'stud' he is too lmao so yeah im just all erghh

to add to my problems, my ex who i love more than anything else in the world has decided to move uni's, so hes now just an hour away. he's absolutly begging me to get back with him but i just cant ]: i feel like im being well selfish and if we do get back together he'l only just regret it and il feel worse ]]:

help meeeeeeee ]]]]]]]]]:

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this might be long idk yet but i will probs babble on ]:

right so, when i was in london on saturday i got asked to go to this party. so me, my brother and about four others went and didnt really know anyone. yeah anyway, i got really drunk, as i do and got off with this lad. he's 21, at uni & i got honestly say he is the most fittest lad i have ever seen in my life ]: (wish i had a pic) he asked for my mobile number and all that, but i wouldnt give him it, but he got it somehow. yesterday he phoned me and we were on the phone for about 3hrs? then he added me to msn & asked me to go on cam. i wouldnt for ages and ages but i did in the end for some reason. he started so say how beautiful, how he was really falling for me and he wishes he lived closer :| he's got really friendly with my brother as well, and hes coming to stay in 3 weekss and i dont know what to doo ]: i really wanna stay single and i know it could never work cause i dont do the whole long distance thing but he is really really really sweet and well good lookinggggg ]: he also thinks im well older than i am, i never told him my age, he just assumed ]: all his friends have been telling me how much of a 'stud' he is too lmao so yeah im just all erghh

to add to my problems, my ex who i love more than anything else in the world has decided to move uni's, so hes now just an hour away. he's absolutly begging me to get back with him but i just cant ]: i feel like im being well selfish and if we do get back together he'l only just regret it and il feel worse ]]:

help meeeeeeee ]]]]]]]]]:

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If I were you I'd get back with your ex, you clearly like him, and that other fit lad was just a one night thing ;)

Well if you still like your ex loads and he likes you, get back with him? Plus with only knowing that other lad, you might not know what he is really like etc? I dunno really, upto you!!

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this might be long idk yet but i will probs babble on ]:

right so, when i was in london on saturday i got asked to go to this party. so me, my brother and about four others went and didnt really know anyone. yeah anyway, i got really drunk, as i do and got off with this lad. he's 21, at uni & i got honestly say he is the most fittest lad i have ever seen in my life ]: (wish i had a pic) he asked for my mobile number and all that, but i wouldnt give him it, but he got it somehow. yesterday he phoned me and we were on the phone for about 3hrs? then he added me to msn & asked me to go on cam. i wouldnt for ages and ages but i did in the end for some reason. he started so say how beautiful, how he was really falling for me and he wishes he lived closer :| he's got really friendly with my brother as well, and hes coming to stay in 3 weekss and i dont know what to doo ]: i really wanna stay single and i know it could never work cause i dont do the whole long distance thing but he is really really really sweet and well good lookinggggg ]: he also thinks im well older than i am, i never told him my age, he just assumed ]: all his friends have been telling me how much of a 'stud' he is too lmao so yeah im just all erghh

to add to my problems, my ex who i love more than anything else in the world has decided to move uni's, so hes now just an hour away. he's absolutly begging me to get back with him but i just cant ]: i feel like im being well selfish and if we do get back together he'l only just regret it and il feel worse ]]:

help meeeeeeee ]]]]]]]]]:

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Hmmm... why are you constantly talking about how you get drunk and go with people from uni's? Your like 14...

Anyway, even if I disagree with any part of your post, I will still give you the same help and advice as I give others. :]

For a start, I feel you shouldn't be going with people as old as 21 at your age, especially without informing them how old you are. If someone found out, perhaps one of your parents, that you were seeing people that age, it could get serious and the guy could end up in a lot of bother.

You know yourself it wouldn't work with him, so I suggest you simply tell him it was fun at the party etc. but it was simply no strings and your not after a relationship at this time in your life, it'd also be helpful for you to tell him your age.

You said you don't really wanna be in a relationship at the moment, so I don't think your ex boyfriend really comes into it then, just because he's moving close to home. If you want to be single, then be single - don't just go with someone for the sake of it. You'll be respected more by others, and you'll respect yourself more.

Tanya you need me in your life babes.
I don't go to no uni.

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Hmmm... why are you constantly talking about how you get drunk and go with people from uni's? Your like 14...

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i think i made a thread once about having a hangover & ive never ever mentioned going out with anyone from uni because when i was with callum he was in his last year of college

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i think i made a thread once about having a hangover & ive never ever mentioned going out with anyone from uni because when i was with callum he was in his last year of college

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The majority of times I have read any of your posts, they generally seem to relate with people you've slept with, kissed, been with, or a time you've drank or something...

Anyway, I hope you make the right decision, and just do whats best for you! :)

you obviously dont read many of my posts then?

and cheers for the advice

Tell him your 14. If I were 21 and I got off with a 14 year old I'd crap one when she told me her age :p

Your 14? And going to party's and 'getting with' 21 year old's? One if you decided to take it futher it could land this kid in serious trouble seeing as your 14? and he's 21. Where's your brother when all this is happening? Isn't your brother protective over you..?

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Tell him your 14. If I were 21 and I got off with a 14 year old I'd crap one when she told me her age :p

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lols aye ano same, but then again, there are some SICK people about who are like that :rolleyes:

Just do what you thinks right tanya

im fifteen next month and everyone says i look older!!!!!

and yeah matts well protective thats why he doesnt know

Some weird people, but it's worth a try :p If telling him you're 14 turns him on, you're not likely to get rid of him with anything else :p Anyway, I'd hate to know my sister was getting with lads six years older than her >.<

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Tell him your 14. If I were 21 and I got off with a 14 year old I'd crap one when she told me her age :p

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Same, I'd brick it :P

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Your 14? And going to party's and 'getting with' 21 year old's? One if you decided to take it futher it could land this kid in serious trouble seeing as your 14? and he's 21. Where's your brother when all this is happening? Isn't your brother protective over you..?

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Yeah that is a bit perverted of the older kid! If I had a younger sister and this was the same I'd knock his ******* head off!!!

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lols aye ano same, but then again, there are some wierd people about who are like that :rolleyes:

Just do what you thinks right tanya

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Weird people, more like go for younger girls that young is sick "/

Tan I'd try and find someone your age cos at the end of the day 90% of boys only go for younger girls for sex, end of.

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he's got really friendly with my brother as well

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Sorry but I found that bit hilarious.

Like others have said, just tell him how old you are, he'll freak and you'll have your problem solved.

lmao i was laughing when i typed it

and im on the phone to him now, ive told him how old i am but he just thinks im saying it so he'l leave me alone

i cant win!! :(

Go on a webcam and show him your birth certificate then :p lol..

im not going on webcam, just been in the shower

he sounds like a rapist.

I really don't know. Me and Claz have not expieranced anything like this as we are the same ageish so we would not no. I would just go with the flow.

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he sounds like a rapist.

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lmao shurrup

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I really don't know. Me and Claz have not expieranced anything like this as we are the same ageish so we would not no. I would just go with the flow.

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roflmao@that loolllllll

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im not going on webcam, just been in the shower

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Sounds good.

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lmao shurrup

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he does though, first he gets yer phone number, then your msn, can u say rapeeeeeeeee

seriously - i dont want you to feel scared, but there are weirdo's out there. He's 21, he could manhandle you...if he was one of those people. I'd get back with your ex - stay with something you know, not something you're taking a big chance with.

that's my five cents.

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this might be long idk yet but i will probs babble on ]:

right so, when i was in london on saturday i got asked to go to this party. so me, my brother and about four others went and didnt really know anyone. yeah anyway, i got really drunk, as i do and got off with this lad. he's 21, at uni & i got honestly say he is the most fittest lad i have ever seen in my life ]: (wish i had a pic) he asked for my mobile number and all that, but i wouldnt give him it, but he got it somehow. yesterday he phoned me and we were on the phone for about 3hrs? then he added me to msn & asked me to go on cam. i wouldnt for ages and ages but i did in the end for some reason. he started so say how beautiful, how he was really falling for me and he wishes he lived closer :| he's got really friendly with my brother as well, and hes coming to stay in 3 weekss and i dont know what to doo ]: i really wanna stay single and i know it could never work cause i dont do the whole long distance thing but he is really really really sweet and well good lookinggggg ]: he also thinks im well older than i am, i never told him my age, he just assumed ]: all his friends have been telling me how much of a 'stud' he is too lmao so yeah im just all erghh

to add to my problems, my ex who i love more than anything else in the world has decided to move uni's, so hes now just an hour away. he's absolutly begging me to get back with him but i just cant ]: i feel like im being well selfish and if we do get back together he'l only just regret it and il feel worse ]]:

help meeeeeeee ]]]]]]]]]:

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You said hes coming to stay at urs in 3 weeks? uve met him once, u dont really know him no matter how much u think u do. wotever he says on the internet could just be an act.

wont your parents realise how old he is when they see him? i mean even if he looks young for his age.. they aint gunna believe hes as young as you are they?

and if your not a virgin, and im guessing hes not either, then u know its going to happen if you both like each other + hes stayin in ur house. then the guy is in trouble.

i know u say u cant win, but u can.. just tell him u dont wonna see him. make sure he believes how old you are and get back with your ex.

you can even keep in contact with this "fit" lad as mates, and if you still feel the same when your old enough, then try to have a relationship then.

seriousely, u need to make sure nothing happens between u2.

him and two of my brothers mates from london who hes known longer are coming to stayyyyy, so it wont just be him

I dont see the problem here.

You like a guy... he likes you....?????

Wheres the twist?

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Hmmm... why are you constantly talking about how you get drunk and go with people from uni's? Your like 14...

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It's the internet, everyone can make up storys on here :D

lmao, you think i lie? :rolleyes:

He might **** you when he gets to yours. He does sound weird when you think about it, got your number, your MSN etc. after you'd said no.

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I dont see the problem here.

You like a guy... he likes you....?????

Wheres the twist?

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She's 14 he's 21.. Maybe you have different veiws to me but I think that, that is quite a twist..

Ow and yeah you do look older than you are. I'm 16 and you look older than me. God bless my baby face.

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He might **** you when he gets to yours. He does sound weird when you think about it, got your number, your MSN etc. after you'd said no.

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lmao naa

Meh, if a girl tells me no I just say fine or push until I get it, I don't get it on the sly :p