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[Tanya]

this might be long idk yet but i will probs babble on ]:

right so, when i was in london on saturday i got asked to go to this party. so me, my brother and about four others went and didnt really know anyone. yeah anyway, i got really drunk, as i do and got off with this lad. he's 21, at uni & i got honestly say he is the most fittest lad i have ever seen in my life ]: (wish i had a pic) he asked for my mobile number and all that, but i wouldnt give him it, but he got it somehow. yesterday he phoned me and we were on the phone for about 3hrs? then he added me to msn & asked me to go on cam. i wouldnt for ages and ages but i did in the end for some reason. he started so say how beautiful, how he was really falling for me and he wishes he lived closer :| he's got really friendly with my brother as well, and hes coming to stay in 3 weekss and i dont know what to doo ]: i really wanna stay single and i know it could never work cause i dont do the whole long distance thing but he is really really really sweet and well good lookinggggg ]: he also thinks im well older than i am, i never told him my age, he just assumed ]: all his friends have been telling me how much of a 'stud' he is too lmao so yeah im just all erghh

to add to my problems, my ex who i love more than anything else in the world has decided to move uni's, so hes now just an hour away. he's absolutly begging me to get back with him but i just cant ]: i feel like im being well selfish and if we do get back together he'l only just regret it and il feel worse ]]:

help meeeeeeee ]]]]]]]]]:

[cocaine]

this might be long idk yet but i will probs babble on ]:

right so, when i was in london on saturday i got asked to go to this party. so me, my brother and about four others went and didnt really know anyone. yeah anyway, i got really drunk, as i do and got off with this lad. he's 21, at uni & i got honestly say he is the most fittest lad i have ever seen in my life ]: (wish i had a pic) he asked for my mobile number and all that, but i wouldnt give him it, but he got it somehow. yesterday he phoned me and we were on the phone for about 3hrs? then he added me to msn & asked me to go on cam. i wouldnt for ages and ages but i did in the end for some reason. he started so say how beautiful, how he was really falling for me and he wishes he lived closer :| he's got really friendly with my brother as well, and hes coming to stay in 3 weekss and i dont know what to doo ]: i really wanna stay single and i know it could never work cause i dont do the whole long distance thing but he is really really really sweet and well good lookinggggg ]: he also thinks im well older than i am, i never told him my age, he just assumed ]: all his friends have been telling me how much of a 'stud' he is too lmao so yeah im just all erghh

to add to my problems, my ex who i love more than anything else in the world has decided to move uni's, so hes now just an hour away. he's absolutly begging me to get back with him but i just cant ]: i feel like im being well selfish and if we do get back together he'l only just regret it and il feel worse ]]:

help meeeeeeee ]]]]]]]]]:

If I were you I'd get back with your ex, you clearly like him, and that other fit lad was just a one night thing

[Jamie!]

Well if you still like your ex loads and he likes you, get back with him? Plus with only knowing that other lad, you might not know what he is really like etc? I dunno really, upto you!!

[Ostinato]

this might be long idk yet but i will probs babble on ]:

right so, when i was in london on saturday i got asked to go to this party. so me, my brother and about four others went and didnt really know anyone. yeah anyway, i got really drunk, as i do and got off with this lad. he's 21, at uni & i got honestly say he is the most fittest lad i have ever seen in my life ]: (wish i had a pic) he asked for my mobile number and all that, but i wouldnt give him it, but he got it somehow. yesterday he phoned me and we were on the phone for about 3hrs? then he added me to msn & asked me to go on cam. i wouldnt for ages and ages but i did in the end for some reason. he started so say how beautiful, how he was really falling for me and he wishes he lived closer :| he's got really friendly with my brother as well, and hes coming to stay in 3 weekss and i dont know what to doo ]: i really wanna stay single and i know it could never work cause i dont do the whole long distance thing but he is really really really sweet and well good lookinggggg ]: he also thinks im well older than i am, i never told him my age, he just assumed ]: all his friends have been telling me how much of a 'stud' he is too lmao so yeah im just all erghh

to add to my problems, my ex who i love more than anything else in the world has decided to move uni's, so hes now just an hour away. he's absolutly begging me to get back with him but i just cant ]: i feel like im being well selfish and if we do get back together he'l only just regret it and il feel worse ]]:

help meeeeeeee ]]]]]]]]]:

Hmmm... why are you constantly talking about how you get drunk and go with people from uni's? Your like 14...

Anyway, even if I disagree with any part of your post, I will still give you the same help and advice as I give others. :]

For a start, I feel you shouldn't be going with people as old as 21 at your age, especially without informing them how old you are. If someone found out, perhaps one of your parents, that you were seeing people that age, it could get serious and the guy could end up in a lot of bother.

You know yourself it wouldn't work with him, so I suggest you simply tell him it was fun at the party etc. but it was simply no strings and your not after a relationship at this time in your life, it'd also be helpful for you to tell him your age.

You said you don't really wanna be in a relationship at the moment, so I don't think your ex boyfriend really comes into it then, just because he's moving close to home. If you want to be single, then be single - don't just go with someone for the sake of it. You'll be respected more by others, and you'll respect yourself more.

[Infractionized]

Tanya you need me in your life babes.
I don't go to no uni.

[Tanya]

Hmmm... why are you constantly talking about how you get drunk and go with people from uni's? Your like 14...

i think i made a thread once about having a hangover & ive never ever mentioned going out with anyone from uni because when i was with callum he was in his last year of college

[Ostinato]

i think i made a thread once about having a hangover & ive never ever mentioned going out with anyone from uni because when i was with callum he was in his last year of college

The majority of times I have read any of your posts, they generally seem to relate with people you've slept with, kissed, been with, or a time you've drank or something...

Anyway, I hope you make the right decision, and just do whats best for you!

[Tanya]

you obviously dont read many of my posts then?

and cheers for the advice

[Rizla]

Tell him your 14. If I were 21 and I got off with a 14 year old I'd crap one when she told me her age :p

[Alterate]

Your 14? And going to party's and 'getting with' 21 year old's? One if you decided to take it futher it could land this kid in serious trouble seeing as your 14? and he's 21. Where's your brother when all this is happening? Isn't your brother protective over you..?