well theres this girl i like and weve bin m8s for bout 3 yrs now nd i dunno if i shud ask her out or not i dunno if it wud destroy our friendship wot do u think?
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well theres this girl i like and weve bin m8s for bout 3 yrs now nd i dunno if i shud ask her out or not i dunno if it wud destroy our friendship wot do u think?
Tell her the exact words you just said.
I would go for it, she might be feeling the same way about you, and even if she doesn't, if shes a true friends, then she won't let it come in between you.
Tell her what you said there.
thnks for da advice guys but i need more help iv give u sum rep nd more rep to others who help me
Start flirting abit and see how she responds, like if she starts to flirt back or if she backs out, it happend with me and she flirted back we went out and then decided to break up were still good mates now
Adding to what I said, maybe you should ask her to go out with you sometime, like to the cinema or ice-skating or summin, just you and her, and keep going out together, and see how it feels, you never know something could happen between you. It might be awkward for her aswell, as she sees you as a friend, and also might not want to ruin the friendship, so maybe tell her how you feel, You dont need to be full on "I fancy you". Then she what she has to say.
Good luck!
Starburst..x
Get her drunk.
^LmaoQuote:
Originally Posted by FlyingJesus
Do you like her in a girlfriend way? Cause unless it's effecting your friendship that you wanna go out with her it seems pointless cause I doubt that if you went out then things didnt work out you could go back to being friends there would always be a slight awkwardness, Maybe their wouldn't I'm not psychic thats just what I think would happen.
(I just realised that probs didn't make sense but meh I dunno how else to phrase that)
didnt really under stand wot u sed here but ive still give u rep for da advice need abit more help and u get rep for all advice even flyingjesus for sayin get her drunkQuote:
Originally Posted by Lindzi
Lol I'll try to rephrase it, Imagine you guys went out okay then imagine you broke up, do you think you could go back to being friends? i mean go back entirely so there wouldn't be any awkwardness. So maybe you shouldn't ruin it unless you completely want her to be your girlfriend like to the point where you wanting her to be your girlfriend is ruining your friendship. (That possibly didnt make any sense either but mehhhh)Quote:
Originally Posted by !d-generation-x
Have a good think and try and decide whether she likes you or not.Quote:
Originally Posted by !d-generation-x
You don't wanna ask her out or something and it's gonna wreck your friendship forever, so don't just do it on a limb - make sure you have a good idea the feeling's mutual.
If you think she does like you, then I say just go for it - afterall you only live once and should make the most of your chances whilst you still can, as you may regret it in the long run if you don't.
The worst that can really happen, is she'll no, but if she's really a true friend she should just let it paass by and carry on like thing's are normal!
Good luck!
Tru dat, do it on the table.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ostinato
well today in german she started looking at me and started to smile at me wot dya think tht means
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Originally Posted by !d-generation-x
What i think she is trying to say is; if you both went out then you split up would you still be as good of friends as you are now.
you've got to ask yourself.
" Do i love her enough that i would do anything for her" :) i think you should give it a while and see if see if she does really love you.:)
smiling at how gay your hair looksQuote:
Originally Posted by !d-generation-x
lol im jokin m8 she obviously likes you called silent flirting go for it
Maybe it's just me.. but I can sorta tell if the girl feels the same.
Like, little signs, and your relationship with each other becomes more and more secluded and apart from everyone else.
The something happens that sparks it off, then comes the awkward staring stage, then one of you decides to just go for it.
But in your case, I advise taking the advice that fits your personality best.
If you like her enough then ask her out, things will probably get awkward if the relationship ends.
all i can say is this: follow your heart =]
i av the same kind ov problem as this nd i made a thread bout it b4 i realised there was this thread so id respect the help aswell
ye sorry to bring up an old thread but i really need help ok her bdays on da 8th nd i dunno wot 2 do for her
spike her drink.
Wait until she's alone (friends will embarass and influence her) and just ask her. She's probably thinking the exact same thing about you.
^ Dont do it in front of people because if you're mates she'll feel more uncomfortable with people around. Get her a present, like perfume or something.