Lost, Confused and in a mess

Ok so i'll introduce the situation.
One of my not so good mates is dating this girl.
She recently told me she likes me and secretly i liked her.
Now he's overseas and yeah she told me she wants me bad.
Yesterday we were walking back from the supermarket on the way to youth group lol and she's like i don't want to go back just yet.
anyway she pushes me up agaisnt a table and starts kissing my neck, after about 5 minutes our lips meet and yeah we pash. but now things are heaps,
if her b/f finds out i'm dead and she doesn't want to dump him however she wants me wth am i suppose to do?

girl wants you
you want girls
go for it

but she has a b/f who is like kinda my mate,
so either i get bashed when he finds out or he finds out and by that time he's already been dumped.

What does pash mean?

umm french kissing

I see, well she seems kind of weird not wanting to dump the other guy.

Just tell her she can't have both, if she wants you 'soo bad' she'll dump him and be with u :)
If she doesn't shes only going to be using you.

if she dumps him now, hes overseas so he dont know how long you 2 been together

"Hey Babe sorry its taken so long for me to reply to ur last msg i fell asleep, atm i honestly don't no if i want 2 wid u or him its just so hard. ily"

argh:'(

MAKE HER CHOOSE >;]

i told her that but argh i mean shes cute and all and i love her so much but i know her b/f will bash me lol or get ****** off at me.

Exactly, thats why you dont get involved with her like that until she has chosen.

:) Tell her she can't have both and she has to make a decision and if she doesn't your not interested. That way you'll know if she really wants you or not.

but i am intrested and i don't want to not have her:(

bros before hos

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Originally Posted by Rix

but i am intrested and i don't want to not have her:(

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Depends if you want to take the risk that she could be using you, I'd be careful if I was you. ;)

i mean i was sick of being frigid getting no action my last 2 g/f's it just wasn't right but why did my 1st kiss have to be like this

Like you said couple of posts above. You are interested, but act like your not until she gives you an answer. If she chooses her bf then move on but if she chooses you and dumps your mate then give it time before you start seeing her again so your mate wont get suspicious.

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Originally Posted by devil.wont.Cry

Like you said couple of posts above. You are interested, but act like your not until she gives you an answer. If she chooses her bf then move on but if she chooses you and dumps your mate then give it time before you start seeing her again so your mate wont get suspicious.

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I agree with this suggestion. It'll be better to wait, if you take her now, it'll look like you've taken her away from him and bad things might happen. I think if you be patient, you'll get what you want.

Becareful with the decsions you make in these situations and good luck! :D

oh yeah to make the situation worse atm i have a high chance of moving to a new state in aus lol so yeah...

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Originally Posted by Rix

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One of my not so good mates is dating this girl.
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If he's a not so good mate to you then it shouldn't really matter what he thinks?
However, you should say something like "Before we go any further, I want you to stop seeing [whatever he's called], 'cause it just doesn't feel right." and if she says she wont stop seeing him then stay away from it all together.

tell hiom what happened and how things went and he will dump her, if he is a mate, he'll understand youl.

i told him, i haven't heard a reply, but someone told my ex lol, i still kinda mates with my ex but she never see's anything from my side so she's gonna tell my mate it was all me:S
how ever the girl agrees we are be responible for it so she is gonna tell him that, but i already no i'm gonna cop the biggest for this