Lost, Confused and in a mess

[Rix]

i told her that but argh i mean shes cute and all and i love her so much but i know her b/f will bash me lol or get ****** off at me.

[Nemo]

Exactly, thats why you dont get involved with her like that until she has chosen.

[Mr.OSH]

Tell her she can't have both and she has to make a decision and if she doesn't your not interested. That way you'll know if she really wants you or not.

[Rix]

but i am intrested and i don't want to not have her

[dirrty]

bros before hos

[Mr.OSH]

but i am intrested and i don't want to not have her

Depends if you want to take the risk that she could be using you, I'd be careful if I was you.

[Rix]

i mean i was sick of being frigid getting no action my last 2 g/f's it just wasn't right but why did my 1st kiss have to be like this

[Devil.Wont.Cry]

Like you said couple of posts above. You are interested, but act like your not until she gives you an answer. If she chooses her bf then move on but if she chooses you and dumps your mate then give it time before you start seeing her again so your mate wont get suspicious.

[Agesilaus]

Like you said couple of posts above. You are interested, but act like your not until she gives you an answer. If she chooses her bf then move on but if she chooses you and dumps your mate then give it time before you start seeing her again so your mate wont get suspicious.

I agree with this suggestion. It'll be better to wait, if you take her now, it'll look like you've taken her away from him and bad things might happen. I think if you be patient, you'll get what you want.

Becareful with the decsions you make in these situations and good luck!

[Rix]

oh yeah to make the situation worse atm i have a high chance of moving to a new state in aus lol so yeah...