that im ugly.. like is this normal yo dont feel right about yourself?
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that im ugly.. like is this normal yo dont feel right about yourself?
maybe you are
or maybe you have low self esteem.
same as above,
but why do you, reasons?
I'm not quite sure,, im a shy person and think 'im not good enough for someone' or things.
welcome to my world .Quote:
Originally Posted by mousey
its quite obvious that you have low self esteem and confidence . the only way to boost it is by believing that your not ugly .
Good luck .
you most likely have a self confidence issue or a self distored image of yourself.
you shouldn't drag yourself down because that drags the rest of you down with you, and try taking some confidence classes or something to help you get that positive boost in life. good luck. :)
Well. If you had a picture you could get more help :b
Doesn't matter how you look.
It's the person that you ARE.
:)
It does matter how you look.. If I had that greatest nicest girl in the world & she was *REMOVED* ugly I wouldnt want her tbh.Quote:
Originally Posted by Elfoze
Edited by Garion (Forum Moderator): Please do not avoid the Forum filter, thanks :).
True, looks cover up a certain amount but not all of it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ras
Mousey you are just having the teenage worries and things as everything shifts around. When you hit 18 and go out partying all night you will forget all about it :D
lol biggest load of crap i ever heardQuote:
Originally Posted by Elfoze
im the opposite
i feel as if im gods gift to anybody who comes into contact with me
You know, I think I may agree with you for once :) I feel the same way :DQuote:
Originally Posted by spot.
Then got yelled at by Ostinato for being an egotistical Prat :(
you have to look half decent before anyone would start to care about you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Elfoze
ok, heres one, its pouring down with rain and you're in your town centre, and you see a long haired filthy tramp lying on the floor, drunken and stinking of urine and booze.
you cant tell me you're going to go over to him and put your arm round him and invite him over to dinner now are you!?
What a shallow forum you guys make :P
just get out more an socialise with people.
There's nothing you can do to "not think you're ugly" other then change your appearane to suit you.
I had the exact same issues.
Last year before the Summer holidays I had no confidence whatsoever. I didn't have the guts to talk on the phone, walk into a shop on my own, get the bus (well I still don't like getting the bus), and most other standard stuff.
I went to my local music venue and I did this 1 week course where you get put into bands with people you most likely won't know, and you have a week to get atleast 1 cover complete and as many songs as you can before the Friday. On the Friday you do a soundcheck and finally you play a gig in front of parants and normal Square-goers (Harlow Square is what the venue's called, www.harlowsquare.com - rock school is the course). The amount of people is normally around 150 people, 200 or more when sold out.
This really boosted my confidence and afterwards I had made a whole lot of friends. I'm now more confident than ever, and I'm not scared to do most things alone now.
Maybe if you did a similar course (or maybe something different, I only did the course because I'm a musician) then you could possibly benefit from it as much as I did. I've noticed that I don't really care about my looks as much as I used to, I just ignore them and I just give it a swing when it comes to girls. It's who you are inside, and if a girl (and even your friends) can't recognise this, then they're not worth having.
no-ones gonna get to know you if your butt ugly so you can't know if they have a good personality or not. I have a list of 4 things I like about myself on the mirror and I look at them and I say them to myself while walking down the stairs, makes me feel well good.
Everybody is different. What is beautiful to one person is ugly to another and vice versa. Please don't be fooled by the mass media/tv/magazine stereotypical view of what is beautiful and what is not. Be proud of who you are and as somebody else said take pride in your appearance and avoid anybody who is obsessed by 'looks being everything' - they are very shallow people :)
Well when i look in mirror i think of myself as nice/normal. But i never where makeup or do my hair right nice.
When im abit more older. I would love too see myself with makeup and my hair really nice because id look totally different ^^
Like alot of people have said. You might be BUTT ugly or just a low self esteem. If you are ugly, dosent mean you have to stay that way. Get a make over, a fresh hair style. This will not only make you hot n sexy but your confidence & self esteem will boost :D
- And if you still satisfied then you got something deeper going on.
Good luck fool :D
I always throught i wanted to look "older"
Now i do (A)
get wasted with a girl and all will be wellQuote:
Originally Posted by mousey
No one should feel like that, even if you're not pretty you should feel good about yourself. try dressing yourself up. Nothing makes a girl feel better about herself then going on a shopping spree, getting some wicked clothes and going out with mates looking fyn XD
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lol ur girlfriend and you = shrek and fiona
Thank mc lovin ^^ ive got two really good friend both girls :S one im really confident talking to and one i dont talk to at school cause im so shy! but we talk so much over the phone/text/msn and we can come up with so stupid things She makes me feel like someone that i'm not ugly - like im special to her ( no she dosnt Fancie/love or whatever you lot call it nowa days :P gave up with love a long time ago!)
But thanks everyones help except mr.sarcastic above :p
WE HAVE A WINNER!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ras
IMO, i think looks rly doesnt matter at all. i have many friends, including myself, who people might consider ugly, but they didnt rly mind.
just socialise and ure gonna be fine. forget bout how u look, worry too much and ull probably get nowhere.
it does matter how u look, otherwise u wont get the girls.
or boys, in your case ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Greg!
It does matter how you look..
Dont talk bull****.
Its nice too look in the mirror and see what you like.
Its nice to get a cute boyfriend/girlfriend.
Its nice not to get laughed at by a fat japanese boy.
to anybody who reckons looks dont matter; they do.
honest truth there. they play a big part in a lot of things.
anyway; i think pretty much all teenagers go through a phase where they are insecure about themselves. i know i did when i was younger.