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I really like this girl, like she's my bestfriend but she's so pretty. I want to tell her but I'm afraid it will ruin our friendship, I've dropped "hints" but she doesn't click. I don't want to make it dead obvious that I like her, so then she won't talk to me. I went out with her the other day, with her and her best friend and she said she loved the day, cos she never stopped smiling. I dunno what to do, help?
Get over it and stay friends, lets be honest now, you're 11. you're not really gonna 'go out' so just keep your really good friend and truck on, once you realise that you dont really do anything and everything becomes awkward then you may end up going seperate ways.
This. Most relationships U16 usually fail anyway lol. You've been friend zoned and its extremely hard to get out ofQuote:
Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo
You're 11? Risk it. Who cares, you're 11. You'll eat some pizza or whatever and get over it :')
go and tell her
you're only 11 it doesn't matter what happens lol
Just ask her out really. I doubt it would last and be serious anyway, knowing from personal experience at 11 you will get over it.
Yes exactly, and then what after he gets over it? He's lost a friend.Quote:
Originally Posted by ShazLouise
You ppl aint the best at advice :L
I agree with this. You're 11. The relationship is unlikely to last and when (I'm not even putting "if") it does end, you're likely to not be friends. Not worth it.Quote:
Originally Posted by NaughtyNemo
I don't think you should risk it. As others have said the relationship will most probably end very quickly. If it was me, I would prefer a best friend than an ex boyfriend (in your case, girlfriend)
Aw at everyone saying how old you are. You've nothing to lose, you're young, I don't think it will effect your friendship at your age. Just wait a few more days to see if she clicks on, if not talk to her and see what comes of it. Sound like a sweet lil couple.
as been said you have her to lose relationships wont last dont go for it :(
saying that, what do i know about relationships. im gonna die a lonely old man.
Just ask her i did it !!!!!!
At the end of the day, the worst that could happen you would be rejected.
And if she stops being your friend, then she wasn't a good friend in the first place :S.
I've been there before, even though my friend didnt feel the same way we remained close.
no in this scenario they never stop being a friend to some extent, they just stay a bit more distant then before because they dont want to like lead you on or whatnot, learnt this the hard way, I did.Quote:
Originally Posted by KpgbBAN
I think you're better off settling a bit in secondary school cos for all you know you might get involved with different people to her.
you should stay friends with her. You're 11 so obviously it's not gonna be a serious relationship.
so he should just not get a girlfriend until hes like 16? obviously it wouldnt be seriousQuote:
Originally Posted by Wikiii
just tell her, even if it does put a dent in your friendship for a bit it will get better. im still friends with loads of people i went out with when i was around that age and it never ruined any of them. but if you think it will, then maybe just keep away for a bit
send her a note like this in school
http://theemailwars.com/files/2010/07/LikeMe.jpg
to be honest i wish i told people i liked them when i was your age so yeah go for it :] if you lose a friend then meh she wasn't worth having as a friend anyways
omg i had to sell things like that for my young enterprise (not my idea), why people bought them I do not know.Quote:
Originally Posted by wixard
I personally don't agree with what is being said. Yes he's 11 but it doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings. If I were you I wouldn't risk it and just keep being friends for all you know you could get over the fact of liking her. I would leave it for a couple of years and see if you still feel the same way chances are she might start liking you a bit in the near future! good luck with whatever happens. only you can decide. :) x
just ******* do it