Confedience

[Dan2nd]

Drama, Drama, Drama!! It brings you right of your shell. Especially when you think, most of the people who you preform infront of you won't know you, So if you did anything wrong. They're not likely to tease you for it?

In year 7 i was like OMG i cant preform infront of my form, now i've preformed infront of the whole school, year 11's parents/family. All the teachers, which came to about 1800 people. and i'm in year 10. It took me about 3 years, so it's not an overnight thing :-P

To be honest this didn't help me I hated drama! lol I think my problem was I started off shy and for the rest of my school life everyone knew me as this I came out of my shell when I started college I made a new group of friends and I am now one of the loud ones ! There is one boy called Inderpal who never talks andI always try to get him involved ! so you could try and make a new group of mates outside school somehow maybe joining a club or something hope it dosn't sound to dorky or even go to social events such as partys

or if your old enough you could get a job? this is something which also helped me I used to hate talking to people I don't know but now I work in Waitrose (super market) and just go up to random people and ask them if they need help.

I hope you see what I'm getting at all you have to do is go to new places and meet new people !
hope I've helped

[Memmish]

You dont sound very shy to me, you said you dance lots at parties and talk to people, its weird that your friends would suggest you're shy. It seems like you are on the right path to becoming more out-going. good luck and have fun! x

[Carlos]

I read a book called "Feel the fear and do it anyway", it was pretty life changing. Hope that helps.

[-Dispute]

it is hard, i used to have it, try talking to the other sex from you, and maybe join a drama class, that boosts your confidence!

[Stab]

Im not sure if its fair to say,

but if you don't act like you are oozing with confidence, youll never have confidence.

that little saying helps some people.

[laurenx]

To be honest this didn't help me I hated drama! lol I think my problem was I started off shy and for the rest of my school life everyone knew me as this I came out of my shell when I started college I made a new group of friends and I am now one of the loud ones ! There is one boy called Inderpal who never talks andI always try to get him involved ! so you could try and make a new group of mates outside school somehow maybe joining a club or something hope it dosn't sound to dorky or even go to social events such as partys


or if your old enough you could get a job? this is something which also helped me I used to hate talking to people I don't know but now I work in Waitrose (super market) and just go up to random people and ask them if they need help.

I hope you see what I'm getting at all you have to do is go to new places and meet new people !
hope I've helped

Thanks! This has helped me +rep

You dont sound very shy to me, you said you dance lots at parties and talk to people, its weird that your friends would suggest you're shy. It seems like you are on the right path to becoming more out-going. good luck and have fun! x

I do go out, parties and all that. I try and not to think about people, thinking about me as who they 'think' I am, which I'm not. I am quite shy. Thanks anyway +rep

I read a book called "Feel the fear and do it anyway", it was pretty life changing. Hope that helps.

Ooh, I must read that! +rep

it is hard, i used to have it, try talking to the other sex from you, and maybe join a drama class, that boosts your confidence!

I have lots of guy mates, I get on well with them, and I think I talk more to them, then my other mates. I think it is because they don't know me that well, and I don't care what they think about me.

Im not sure if its fair to say,

but if you don't act like you are oozing with confidence, youll never have confidence.

that little saying helps some people.

I wouldn't say that, all these people have been saying how they boost thier confedience..so why can't I?

Thanks anyway! Drama tommorow