Howdys.

[Jacada]

Ok so this is this lad I like he said he loves me and I've told him I love him but im not sure whether he loves me in the same way i love him.

He says hes confused about his orientation, any ideas on what i could do or say to him, I love him loads and he helped me get over my ex boyfriend hes a great guy.

Just need some friendly advice please.

[EverSteve]

Uhm how old is he?

If he's 13 or 14 give him a few months, if hes older Uhm other people help us on that one! LOL

[benjamin]

well, you could try talking to him. as you know he's not going to be one of those guys who are like 'errrr your gay' or somthing, because he said he loves you. but really, all you can do is sit down and talk to him, and just say how you feel. talk about all the things he's helped you with, like you mentioned your ex boyfriend and stuff.

can i ask, how old are you two?

[ColyTom]

well, you could try talking to him. as you know he's not going to be one of those guys who are like 'errrr your gay' or somthing, because he said he loves you. but really, all you can do is sit down and talk to him, and just say how you feel. talk about all the things he's helped you with, like you mentioned your ex boyfriend and stuff.

can i ask, how old are you two?

Not necessarily, some men say "I love you" to other men but it doesn't they're gay and there is a possibility that they will go "errrr you're gay". However, if you are very close to him then that probably isn't the case.

[Jacada]

Both 14, thanks for the advice so far people!

And aye hes not a homophobe and we are pretty close.

[benjamin]

Both 14, thanks for the advice so far people!

And aye hes not a homophobe and we are pretty close.

hm, well yeah. if i was you, i'd try and talk to him, like when you two are alone or somthing. tell him how you feel &what's on your mind. but if you don't really fancy doing that to his face, try talking online?

[xRoyal15]

write him a letter explaining how you feel. If it all goes wrong say ya mate made it LOL