How to tell if your in "love"!

[StainCast]

hehe.

Good thread. +rep

xx

[Demi]

Thank you =]

[DiscoPat]

Um, he said somthing, which I didnt like, and done somthing, and I couldnt beat him up then because I'm a prefect, so ughh! I made a plan..
I'm gonna like give a fiver or somthing to someone telling him to 'fight' or hit this guy right at the back of the school field, where I will 'break it up' and instead ill beat him up... and in my report ill just say I had to use force because they were blah blah blah... then I won't loose my prefect.

[Demi]

Ahaha.
Nice one! =]
Legend plan I think.

[Adam!]

The most painfull is when you watch the one you love - love somone else..

Bloody horrible that init..

-Wishes she would stop loving him-

[Demi]

At the moment I'm fine with that problem.
But, yeah it's pain.

[DiscoPat]

Now that the topic is open I wana go and bust his house, but i dont know where he lives.

[The Professor]

Sorry to crash the party, but I really think you're taking this too seriously. To formulate my post, I will make a few presumtions;
All people posting here are 16 or under (as is common on habbo)
All people who have posted have been in at least one mid-long term relationship (3 months+)

I would now like you to consider the relationship you have been (or are). You see each other at school, once or twice a week outside school, and keep in contact via phone/msn daily. When you break contact with this person, it is likely only to have dinner or to sleep, and within 12 hours you will be chatting away again like there is no tomorrow. It is not for an extended period of time. How this can leave an "empty feeling" is beyond all reasonable logic.

Now to the other point raised; breaking up. I would like you to consider all the possible reasons for someone who is 16 or under to break up with someone. It is highly unlikely that the sex life had gone downhill, or that you didnt have enough money to pay the rent without benifits (as is common in adult relationships). It is more commonly the case that you are simply bored with each other. Youve done everything there is to do, go to the cinemas, have a nice long kissing session behind woolworths etc, and now you want something different. It is also common that you've had a small argument about something extremely minor (such as who puts the phone down first). Now, if simply being bored warrants a break up, there can't have been a lot there to begin with besides the thrill of having another partner after all these months. So how can it be that "painful"?

If you are still telling yourself "OMGZZZ, 'E IZ LYK SOO RONG, I WUD DIE FOR MA BF/GF" then you are either just desperate, want to go out with someone for image or are obsessed. In either of those cases, go and get professional help, because you are either sad, a chav or an emo.

My point is, no matter how you think you are "deeply in love" you never really are. Your age restricts you too much to truly experience having a long term partner, and therefore you cannot truly experience love until you have a house, car, money and a nice big double bed and all the other things adults use to piece together a love life. No matter how much you tell yourself you love your partner, you dont, its just exciting and makes you feel good temporarily to kiss someone, or hold their hand or tell them who you murdered last night.

Rant ends.

[Demi]

Sorry.
I'm over 16 =]
So I have the experience.

Yes you can be in love.
You probably haven't but someone has!

The empty feeling thing, you've got me wrong on that. =]

Sorry x

[Adam!]

Im 15, means nothing tbh..

And if I cared to look to the right of me there is a nice big comfy double bed thats mine? lol