I had a friend who commited suicide about 2 years ago and it is just a nightmare. You always wonder 'why'. My friend never left a suicide note or anything and a week before she did it, she told me that she was being bullied in her new school (she had been expelled from the one I was in). She made me promise not to tell anyone not even her twin brother, who I am best mates with. When I found out I kept thinking "maybe I should've talked to her or told somebody" but beating yourself up over it won't help anything.
Maybe on the flowers write about the lad. 'Sorry' on flowers isn't really helpful because parents want to hear what people thought of their son/daughter. Say how he stood with you and that he was a good kid.
You must not upset yourself or blame yourself because that doesn't help things. What happened is tragic, the fact that he couldn't talk to anyone.
Just try and remember good times rather than regretting things.






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