No girlfriend in 4yrs on valentines day.

[.:Normal...]

13 boy!?! You're 13 and your thinking it's not normal to have a girlfriend?!? Cone here, take a seat with Auntie Normal

Okay, it's not UN normal to have a girlfriend at 13, lots of people do. But it's UN normal to think it's UN normal to not have a girlfriend understand? Me being a big idol in the dating department *ahem* I will give you some advice.

• Do not chage yourself for a girl! (I don't know how many times I have turned down a guy because they said "I would like you better only if you were 'this'.")
• Don't go searching for one, because it will just get frustrating looking and not being able to have one.
• Don't be too picky NOW, although we all wish we could, that 'perfect' person is hard to find - especially at 13
• ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS have fresh breath. It may not be a big deal to other girls, but for me I know when I go in for that first kiss with a person it needs to be fresh, not funky. Girls will be put back by that
• DON'T be a jerk or cocky. Girls hate it, we want to feel like we are the one you care about, not yourself

Okay wow, I am finding myself really getting into this post so I'm going to stop now lol

I found this bulliten on myspace and it's SO TRUE okay. Use it as your bible if you want a girl to fall in love with you because I know I would fall in love with somebody who does this:

• give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.
• leave her cute text notes.
• tell her she looks beautiful.
• look into her eyes when you talk to her.
• let her mess with your hair.
• touch her hair.
• just walk around with her.
• FORGIVE her for her MISTAKES.
• look at her like she's the only girl you see.
• tickle her even when she says stop.
• when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.
• let her fall asleep in your arms.
• get her mad, then kiss her.
• stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything
• tease her and let her tease you back.
• stay up all night with her when she's sick.
• watch her favorite movie with her.
• give her the world.
• let her wear your clothes.
• when she's sad, hang out with her.
• let her know she's important.
• kiss her in the pouring rain.
• when you fall in love with her, tell her.
• and when you tell her, love her like you've never loved
someone before.
• and,when she runs up at you crying...let the first thing you say is..."who's *** am i beating today?"


HOPE THIS HELPS. ♥

[UnholyJess]

You shouldnt be worrying about that at 13.
Education first
I didnt find my true love until i was 17!

More than likely it wont last if your under 18 because most people are immature at that age

[indian8132]

This is a very old post and when I first posted I didnt have a gf, but I now do and what some of you said, them being trouble, tbh i think you couldnt be more right. She is a lot of trouble and I understand when people say wait till your older!!

[News-Reporter]

wait until your 18 cos i havent had a gf yet and im 17

[Cwmbran]

13 boy!?! You're 13 and your thinking it's not normal to have a girlfriend?!? Cone here, take a seat with Auntie Normal

That made me Lol.

Right, at 13 it should not really matter that you don't have a girlfriend.
When I read the thread title, I thought you may have been older but you are only 13.

As said before you should go to school to get a good education and to have fun with your mates. If you get a girlfriend at this age after about a week you will/could be very stressed for numerous reasons, and she really liked you but you only wanted to go out with her to fit in and she did not really mean anything to you think of how she would feel.

It seems that you only want a girlfriend so you can fit in, well if you have friends then you already have fitted in and shouldn't be worrying about not having a girlfriend.

To how to get a girlfriend.
You should just be yourself there is no need to change. If you changed to get a girl to like you then in your relationship you changed back to normal she may not like it so don't change.

At the end off the day. Your too young.

[News-Reporter]

are you spotty irL?

[indian8132]

are you spotty irL?

Lol, well I have a few spots.. But I used spot cream and it worked

[cocaine]

most of the people who are saying "your too young" - a lot of people mature at different ages.

some people will be mature at like, 14 or 15, some people may mature at a later age, say 17 or 18. The ages might be a bit extreme, but the point is that it all varies with different people.

[velocity]

i dont get when people say teenage dating is never serious. its as serious as you want it to be, who are you to say?

[Roboevil]

• give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.
• leave her cute text notes.
• tell her she looks beautiful.
• look into her eyes when you talk to her.
• let her mess with your hair.
• touch her hair.
• just walk around with her.
• FORGIVE her for her MISTAKES.
• look at her like she's the only girl you see.
• tickle her even when she says stop.
• when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.
• let her fall asleep in your arms.
• get her mad, then kiss her.
• stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything
• tease her and let her tease you back.
• stay up all night with her when she's sick.
• watch her favorite movie with her.
• give her the world.
• let her wear your clothes.
• when she's sad, hang out with her.
• let her know she's important.
• kiss her in the pouring rain.
• when you fall in love with her, tell her.
• and when you tell her, love her like you've never loved
someone before.
• and,when she runs up at you crying...let the first thing you say is..."who's *** am i beating today?"

Isn't that called slavery?