How do I ask them?

[timROGERS]

Hey,

I'm an early teenager but I've never felt confident enough to ask someone out. I'm confident in just about every other way, I just can't bring myself to do it.

There's a girl I know well in the year below me, and I just don't know what to do. I think about her so much, and it sends shivers down my spine. I've fancied lots of other girls in the past, but this is different in my mind. The problem really is that I don't want to ruin my friendship with her, aside from the fact that I'm not confident enough to ask her.

I was away on a camping holiday with the church over the weekend, which we both go to, and loads of her friends came up to me and said that they could tell I fancied her, but I just denied it. If they can tell I fancy her, she can probably tell too. When I think back to it, I was consciously and sub-consciously flirting with her.

What should I do? I just can't work it out.

[VPSwow]

Just say to her something like i really enjoy hanging around with you and i love out friendship. Then continue to say maybe we could go out but i dont want to ruin our friendship if it doesnt work out

Good luck

[mangle]

Ask one of her friends to see if she likes you?
That'd be a good starting point , if they know you like her then they wont exactly be like "OMGZ THATS WELL SUPRISING" And if she doesn't like you carrying on trying to make her like you and if she does , go for it :]1

[timROGERS]

Just say to her something like i really enjoy hanging around with you and i love out friendship. Then continue to say maybe we could go out but i dont want to ruin our friendship if it doesnt work out

Good luck

Thanks for that, but it's just not that simple for me. What do you say? Won't it sound a bit blunt if you just say "will you go out with me?".

Ask one of her friends to see if she likes you?
That'd be a good starting point , if they know you like her then they wont exactly be like "OMGZ THATS WELL SUPRISING" And if she doesn't like you carrying on trying to make her like you and if she does , go for it :]1

I'd do that ideally, but they'd probably tell her which would mess up our friendship

[mangle]

Thanks for that, but it's just not that simple for me. What do you say? Won't it sound a bit blunt if you just say "will you go out with me?".



I'd do that ideally, but they'd probably tell her which would mess up our friendship

Isn't their a chance she already knows ?
Of course you could just leave it but that gets you knowhere tbh

[Breakfloor]

Well son, its when a man and a women love eachother..

on a serious note.. whip it out and stick it in.

on a REAL serious note just start talking to her abit more before you ask her. if you talk to her then shell just think as you of a friend. try and get closer and THEN start asking her friends. and when the time comes "will you go out with me" will be a good start.

[Phreedom]

man I have the same problem with girls. I am just really shy soo.. yeah

[Mr.Sam]

Ask if she is busy *insert day* and go somewhere together (Not the cinema..)

[Dentafrice,]

well if they tell her thats a good thing.

for me I always ask one of her friends, im not that confident either.

[Throne Sofa]

I've got the same problem. I'm confident in nearly every other way aswell. I'd go for it though, however if you arern't that confident maybe ask one of your mates and her mates to ask them 'questions' about you like ask her to say to the girl you fancy "do you like him" "you think he's fit" or sumin gl!