How do I ask them?

[Hecktix]

give me her myspace or msn, i'll ask her for you xo

[Yoshimitsui]

Just keep talking to her, and act normal. If you let things take their tole you may find out more about what she feels, spend some time with here when it's just you 2 and things will brighten up.

[@K]

I was never very good at asking girls out, I used to just do it when I knew for a fact that the girl liked me aswell, but now, I have a lovely girlfriend because I just asked her out Even though I am quite shy still.

No no no, that will never work. Been down that road. Anyway I can only give advice on how to stop failing a relationship, cos im useless...
Dont be me. Dont hide it from her until it is too late. Just pull the courage and make sure no jerks ruin it. Being Asked by mates = Embarrasing. Dont deny it, dont try and get rid of it. Go with the flow. Just try and pull up the courage. I asked a girl out, no suprise but when she said 'No' we still stayed freinds. There is nothing to be nervous, but I know how you may feel. It wont ruin your life.

But If you are not ready yet, give it a while. Talk a lot. Be kind and generous to her, try flirting. Perhaps she may come once to ask YOU out.

[Antallica]

Sit her down, just you 2, nobody else.
and say
well, i enjoy hanging around with you, i really like you and care about you.
and etc.

[tully4leanne.]

Do wht u think is right

[Colin-Roberts]

royalairforce! ye you read my mind man, stay the hell out of my mind theres dirt things there.

Ontopic: just talk to her more and more become closer, idk about most people but around here when a boy and a girl are friends everyone including that boy in girl asume that there going date eventually it's just the matter of when and how.

[Rockstar]

If i was you Id just go for it "ask her" and If she says no just say ok and leave it that and ask if your still friend's I suppose.

[Recursion]

Well son, its when a man and a women love eachother..

on a serious note.. whip it out and stick it in.

on a REAL serious note just start talking to her abit more before you ask her. if you talk to her then shell just think as you of a friend. try and get closer and THEN start asking her friends. and when the time comes "will you go out with me" will be a good start.

That made me lol so much its going in my sig, +REP

I had this problem, I told her. If you do it over the phone it doesn't feel so bad - I said to her something like "Look, what Joe has been telling you is true, I do love you and want to go out with you, but I don't want to spoil our friendship over it". Just tell her something like that, worked for me :]

[M6mmikaru]

Aw. So sweet.
You hsould invite her somewhere - eg. for a walk and where you could just talk to her. If she really is a friend, and let's imagine she wouldn't like you the same way u like her, she would understand and wouldn't change her attitude to you.

Good luck with her,