Step Dad's Anger - Out of control.

[Cajak]

First of all, crying is normal.
After, I would like to say that without being in your situation, we can't understand how you really feel, and sometimes (Like Barkseh) thinking that it's a lie. I just hope you feel better now, with our help.
The only thing that I found strange was that when you ran away crying, the policemen didn't even stopped you and telling you WHY you were crying. I dunno if in your country, crying running people is normal...

Seriously, I think that sleeping to your nan's house for a couple of days it's the best thing to do and even talk to somebody. Did you try to talk with somebody OUTSIDE your family ?

Hoping that you'll be okay.
Cajak.

p.s I'm really sorry if I couldn't help you a lot, but I repeat: without being in your situation, we can't understand how you really feel.

[stratosphere]

The only one of your stories I ever believed was to do with your stepdad.

So i'll believe that this one is true, all your love life ones are ********, but yeah.


You should get a lock on your bedroom door, thats what i did!

If he's as bad as Sean says he is, he'll bash through the door.

[Catzsy]

Well hopefully the problem has sorted itself out by now. Let us know Sean

[indian8132]

Ok heres an update. The day before I left for Ireland he came home drunk that night, told me to go to bed and then cause I said no he threw my laptop, and I told mum and I dont know why but he got so incredibly angry at me and started like... growling :S

He threw a lot of stuff and broke a lot of things (not my laptop) in front of my 3yr old sis who was absoloutly horrified. I got my mobile and ran into the bathroom and called 999, they were there in less than 4-5 minuites and arrested him for criminal damage. He actually growled at me, and ran for me but mum kept holding him back and she slapped him But I think if he got his hands on me I would be dead.

Now he sobered up and all, he has apologized like a million times, and as an apology he paid this £300 phone bill and every other bill we had. Mum says its up to be if he comes back and I am strongly sticking to a... NO!

Even though he paid the bills, you cant buy respect can you.

[CrazyColaist]

1. get hes stuff
2. pack it up
3. throw it outside.

[PriceTags]

If he carries on do the idea where you leave a note on your bed and go to your nan's. It's a really good idea.

[indian8132]

If he carries on do the idea where you leave a note on your bed and go to your nan's. It's a really good idea.

read earlier post about him being gone

tbh i think he will come back. around half hour ago he rang mum to ask if I want to go to Brussels, Belgium with him tommorrow (he is a lorry driver). i mean, honestly, does he truly expect me to say yes?

[PriceTags]

read earlier post about him being gone

tbh i think he will come back. around half hour ago he rang mum to ask if I want to go to Brussels, Belgium with him tommorrow (he is a lorry driver). i mean, honestly, does he truly expect me to say yes?

I wouldn't either. He'd have you alone, and he can do what he wants with you once he's on foreign land, if you don't speak the lingo.

[indian8132]

I wouldn't either. He'd have you alone, and he can do what he wants with you once he's on foreign land, if you don't speak the lingo.

What do you mean he can do what he wants with me on foreign land if I dont speak the language :S

[dirrty]

he can do whatever to do, like hurt you as he is alone with you and your mother or whoever isnt there to see whats happening. then when back in the uk he could say you fell or w.e and threaten you.

anythings possible tbh. and what you have told us in this thread, anythings possible