Step Dad's Anger - Out of control.

[indian8132]

well i ran away, sorry to say

but tbh it was only for a few hours.. so not really.

i called childline on public phone box, and nan and her friend opened the door of the phone box and they were so so angry. i was held in the phone box with them shouting at me. they didnt see i rang childline. i went home, mum rang social services and they were going to take me on Monday (last week). they didnt come and im here for good. my laptop was taken off me but i got it back for an hour or two again but not for long. anyway thats the update.

[dirrty]

where were u aiming to run away to?

[indian8132]

where were u aiming to run away to?

tbh i dont know, just anywhere that would get me away from the house at the time. it was stupid to do so, i know.

[dirrty]

well yh it was kinda if you didnt have anywhere to go.

[MuffinHead]

Just tell your mum how it is affecting you, she will understand. Or you could tell your nan?
If that doesn't sort it out and it gets worse then i suggest you seek help, possibly from childline?

I know its pretty daristic but childlines does help people

Good luck x

[Recursion]

I would try the suicide note trick and go round your nans or something and tell her not to tell anyone your there. Or go round a friends?

Keep on going on at the police and childline until they listen. Adults never give 2 ***** about us kids when something like that is happening to us kids. Happened at my old Middle School, i was bullied almost every lesson or break time. Then i just went balistic at the guy in an English lesson once. Mum and dad had to threaten to take me out of school unless they bucked their ideas up. They did and permanently excluded the ****.

[Lily-Beth]

You should stay at your nans & if he keeps doing serious things like that you should ring childline. Also try having a serious chat with your mum she might come to understand you

[indian8132]

Im really pleased that your all helping me, but I have tried talking to mum and its not working.

[-Dispute]

Hello

Well, remember problems I had with family about mum drinking etc? Surprisingly, they have all gone, and guess why? Cause I followed the advice that you, the Habbox population, gave me. And you dont know how grateful I am for that I dont know how to repay you. However, a problem has arised within the past few days - drink unrelated.

My step dad does not take his anger out in a good way. Yesterday, I moved my bed into my baby sisters room to make a office for myself which my mum, and 3yr old sister were fine about He came home from work, and well absoloutly MAD. He told me to get it out of the room, but I couldnt due to the weight of it, it would fall out my hands down the stairs. He was angry, and wheeled it out of the room, threw the matterress and bed base down the stairs completly disregarding what was there. It smashed the table and a bit of the bed. I was angry, understandibly, and called him names. He told my 12yr old sister to take her and baby sister into another room so he could see "how much of a man" I really am. That was the point where I was terrified. I called him a word begginning with C, 4 letters and very rude and tried to run. I got in the garden with him chasing me, and I was crying (ashamed to admit it) and got out the gate where he picked up my baby sisters bike and threw it at me, but i got down and heard a massive crash where it broke part of the gate. He shouted "You get away from this house and dont you dare f*****g come back because I will get you again". I kept running, loads, and saw 2 police offices in the street but I was scared to tell them. I got to a payphone box and called my nan, and I stayed at hers for the night. Im going to stay at my nans for a while I think.

I came home tonight, no intention of sleeping here but I had to. Mum told me my step dad wouldnt be home tonight, and in the past 10 minuites he has came in. Now I am scared about going to sleep because of what he said about "if I come back he will get me". Im currently in the lounge on my laptop, and he is in the kitchen but will come in in a minuite or two.

Should I be ashamed of myself if I cry, is it regarded as "unmanly"? Im scared of what he will do to me, what if he hits me, it wouldnt be the first time he punched someone either. Please help, and maybe this problem will get sorted as efficiantly as the other one. I appericiate every single one of your answers.

:sean

Wow, my Mum has a drinking problem and my Dad has an anger problem..weird..

[indian8132]

Wow, my Mum has a drinking problem and my Dad has an anger problem..weird..

The drinking problem is faded so much it isint a problem anymore
Just the step dad..