
... It's a sign of the maturity of the members of HxF when comments like 'Omg I wish I was anorexic I could lose weight.'Originally Posted by J4M3S
I'de love to be anorexic ):
Contrary to your beliefs, anorexia isn't actually something you want to get. Do you really a mental condition? Because, at the end of the day, that's what it is. Do you really want to be walking through town with friends, feeling fantastic, and then see yourself in a shop window, and feel like complete crap? Do you want to spend nights laying in bed, hunger killing you, but the fear of eating is too much of a risk to put yourself out of your misery? Do you want to have the burden of calculating the calorie content of anything that passes through your lips? Do you want to endure suspicious comments about eating/exercise habits from parents/friends? Do you want several hours of absolute revulsion when you eat something that people free from anorexia eat on a daily basis? I could go on, I really could go on, but I won't.
Conclusion: You obviously know from the media that anorexia is one of the most deadly mental conditions in the world. Try to be mature, and not throw comments like that around, because while they may seem harmless to you, I can pretty much guarantee that they would really hurt someone who has, or has been effected by the condition.
Yah you cant just stuff food down their necks. Youve all got to work at it. Like encourage her to eat to get better and how u dont have to be skinny to look nice, you can be slim and still look nice and be liked. She will probally eat tiny amount but u got to gradually motivate her into eating more.
PROTIP: please do not feed the trolls... It's a sign of the maturity of the members of HxF when comments like 'Omg I wish I was anorexic I could lose weight.'
Contrary to your beliefs, anorexia isn't actually something you want to get. Do you really a mental condition? Because, at the end of the day, that's what it is. Do you really want to be walking through town with friends, feeling fantastic, and then see yourself in a shop window, and feel like complete crap? Do you want to spend nights laying in bed, hunger killing you, but the fear of eating is too much of a risk to put yourself out of your misery? Do you want to have the burden of calculating the calorie content of anything that passes through your lips? Do you want to endure suspicious comments about eating/exercise habits from parents/friends? Do you want several hours of absolute revulsion when you eat something that people free from anorexia eat on a daily basis? I could go on, I really could go on, but I won't.
Conclusion: You obviously know from the media that anorexia is one of the most deadly mental conditions in the world. Try to be mature, and not throw comments like that around, because while they may seem harmless to you, I can pretty much guarantee that they would really hurt someone who has, or has been effected by the condition.
Edited by Garion (Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly, thanks.
Last edited by Nixt; 11-11-2007 at 09:17 PM.
you emo
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Get well soon to her from all of us at HabboxForum, i think!
Hospital is the best place for her.
If, and when, you see her, she won't want to be moaned at, or be told off, that'll not help anything- even asking why probably won't motivate her.
Just let her know you're there, let her know you care- and remind her of the dangers of anorexia, i guess. Tell her how you couldn't bear any of those dangers happening to her because you care for and rely on her too much. Explain how much of a good friend she is to you.
If you can, speak to her family. Ask if you can go in with them; then you can go in sooner. Explain to her family how worried you are- maybe they'll let you see her earlier than you thought.
Don't try and tell her what to eat; what not to eat; or even what to do. That's her doctor's job; and she's more likely to listen to him since he has a higher authority than you.
Personal info!:
My girlfriend is currently in hospital suffering with pancreatitis (google it) and she gets pains any time she eats; so they've put a tube up her nose to her stomach that feeds her. I worry about her like you do about your friend. It's hard to think anything would happen to them. Just be positive!
Keep yourself going that she is being treated; before it was too late.
Tbh, there's nothing you can do to help, even the hospital can't do much to help except get a psychiatrist to talk to her and educate her about her condition.
The only person that can change things is her, so hopefully she's a smart girl.
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