I think you can move out at 15 or at least someone I know has. Is he close to 15 or only just turned 14?
It's still best to take everones advice first though as he seems like he really loves his mum.

I think you can move out at 15 or at least someone I know has. Is he close to 15 or only just turned 14?
It's still best to take everones advice first though as he seems like he really loves his mum.
The other day I was in a toilet.
A voice came from the cubicle next to me: "Hello mate, how are you doing?"
I didn't want to be rude, so I said, "Not too bad, thanks."
I heard the voice again. "So, what are you up to?"
Again I answered, "Just having a quick ****... How about yourself?"
Then I heard him say "Sorry, mate, I'll have to call you back. I've got some **** in the cubicle next to me answering everything I say."
yeh hes quite close to 15.
and ill speak to him at 4 when he gets home from school.
Do you bury me when I'm gone?
Do you teach me while I'm here?
Just as soon as I belong, than it's time I disappear - Metallica
That will only turn into a 1 on 1 fist-fight... I suggest he calls ChildLine when he's out, it's the only way he will probably have some time to talk properly to them without feeling intimated by his Mum. Why not invite him over to your house, and use the phone there? Does your mum know about all this abuse? If so, maybe she could report her as well as his Auntie to combat what seems to be a hopeless situation.
People like this bring it on themselves, and you gotta give the guy credit for trying to love his mum so much despite he gets beaten. If anything, it's not for him to be taken away from her, it's for her to be taken away from him. The realisation when she might lose her son could well smack some sense into her.
both of our mums are the same. but i have somewhere to go where he hasnt. i can get away and talk to someone and sleep there if i really need it. he has to stick with it. he has nowhere to go. i respect him alot for not running away and giving her "just one more chance" everytime it happens. i think childline is the best bet. ill find the number then well talk about it later.
Do you bury me when I'm gone?
Do you teach me while I'm here?
Just as soon as I belong, than it's time I disappear - Metallica
Sorry for offtopic etc but its weird that other threads that peoples have posted saying "My friend" get flamed because everyone thinks they lying and mean themselves..
Ontopic: And yeah tell him to phone childline or something
ChildLine - 0800 11 11both of our mums are the same. but i have somewhere to go where he hasnt. i can get away and talk to someone and sleep there if i really need it. he has to stick with it. he has nowhere to go. i respect him alot for not running away and giving her "just one more chance" everytime it happens. i think childline is the best bet. ill find the number then well talk about it later.
NSPCC - 0808 800 5000
Not sure if the NSPCC is reccomended, but definitely ChildLine. :] It's free to call so just call them on your Mobile phone, or at a payphone somewhere? Anywhere really, as long as you can get through. On the way back from school, just go to a payphone and talk to the Councillers there. They'll probably ask for your address and other details like that, depending on what they think of the situation. Note down the Counciller name if they give you one, that could help alot. Especially if you want to talk to the same person you did, and feel just talking to another person who doesn't know the situation.
What your saying is though, that your mum is the same too? Explain :S
yeh but those threads are quite embarrasing. but i dong give a crap. i have problems, so do you. but my friend really does need help.
and anyway. thanks for the numbers ryan. ive written down everything and will speak to him later. +rep
Do you bury me when I'm gone?
Do you teach me while I'm here?
Just as soon as I belong, than it's time I disappear - Metallica
What :S Are you saying I have problems :S
yes purposeless, you certainly do have problems.
but back on topic. post some more or let it die.
Do you bury me when I'm gone?
Do you teach me while I'm here?
Just as soon as I belong, than it's time I disappear - Metallica
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