Sylvia

[N-Dubz]

I can accept your views, and I respect the fact you believe it was because of her past.

[-Eyeless-]

Alex underwent drama's in her life, so maybe that explains how she is? People still hate her.
An if she wanted everyone to be her friend she wouldnt be twofaced, she would be scared to get caught out, scared she'd loose a friend so really that makes no sense. The fact is Sylvia talks nothing of Alex to her face, but behind her back do's. Its nothing to do with her past your either gonna be a ******* or not. I dont like how she did it, sly and sneeky which is just horriable.
An you know nothing of my past to judge it, but stuff that has happened in my past didn't make me nothing like her, and I'm sure people who have ****** lives dont turn out like her because there personality isnt like hers.
You either grow, or you dont. An if shes twofaced because of this which is highly unlikely then she hasn't grown its made her worse.
Look at Mikey, nice person and hes had worse trauma's being blind and probably alot more problems to face he isnt like her?
If you saw someone being killed et you would probably wouldnt turn out "twofaced" I reckon shes always been that way.

Ok I have time

You can hate somebody even if they had bad experiences. On the contrary how you act now has everything to do with your past, you aren't born an annoying ***** you become one through experience. It is a conditioned reflex, if you have been treated badly you are more likely to treat other people badly, it is the same in silvias case, she was stabed in the back by her own country and now she stabs other people in the back. You are more likely to be a bully if you are unloved and you are less likely to be a bully if you are treated with respect and loved. Funny how you say I have judged your life then you go on to "Judge" everyone who has had a bad experiences lives... As I said before, everybody reacts differently to each other you cannot dictate how other people turn out just because you didn't turn out bad.

You cannot say that mikey has had worse trauma than her it is perception that determines how you see something bad. Mikey will, as stated earlier have come out differently, both because it is a different situation and because people react differently.

Your final comment is erroneous and doesn't really present validity.

Finally from me, if everyone managed to come out of trauma in a positive way there would be no need for psycotherapy, psychiatry or any other form of form of mental help. And guess what millions of people use these services so your points are all pretty singleminded.

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[stickwitu]

you're just overanalysing.
get a qualification in psychology and then we'll listen x

[-Eyeless-]

Haha ironic considering I am taking it at Alevel and will probably be doing it at uni :rolleyes:

[N-Dubz]

Not really. If she had a problem she would have seeked mental help to get back her stability. Just because she was stabbed in the back dosn't mean she will do it herself. If that true then everyone who was in her country turnt out like her? I doubt it, you cant blame trauma's and drama's for the way her personality is. You can sit there and ******** and say her past is why shes twofaced, but what about killers? So just because they've had a horriable life/bring up there aloud to go around killing people? It isnt an excuse, your either something or your not you can't sit blaming her past for everything else she'd get away with **** loads wouldn't she.

[-Eyeless-]

Not really. If she had a problem she would have seeked mental help to get back her stability. Just because she was stabbed in the back dosn't mean she will do it herself. If that true then everyone who was in her country turnt out like her? I doubt it, you cant blame trauma's and drama's for the way her personality is. You can sit there and ******** and say her past is why shes twofaced, but what about killers? So just because they've had a horriable life/bring up there aloud to go around killing people? It isnt an excuse, your either something or your not you can't sit blaming her past for everything else she'd get away with **** loads wouldn't she.

OMG FGS AHHHHHH I said eveybody reacts differently,what part of that do you not understand, I never said eveybody will turn out the same, that is how you interpreted it... Not everybody knows they have subliminal/underlying problems so they wouldn't get help. I never said there was anything right about how she acts and never said I condone bad pasts as a reason to do bad things. I am just giving a reason for the way she acts not an excuse...

[N-Dubz]

So if she killed someone, you would just say "oh her country killed people, it leads back to that!!!" and let her get away with it.

It is an excuse.

[-Eyeless-]

Right I don't get what you just said, but I was never giving her an excuse. People were wondering why she acted like that and I was giving my two cents.

[N-Dubz]

You are giving her an excuse to act that way, but if thats what you believe.

[-Eyeless-]

Ok whatever you want to think but you should really try making sense in future

Its not an excuse its an explanation (Dictionary.com)- often helpful