So heres what happened.

[PaintYourTarget]

Get your nan to talk to her with you. A mother and son two pronged attack will never fail.

[ToxicPaddy]

Nan does talk to her, and she always says she won't drink but she does. Also, I have 2 sisters. One is four, and the other is thirteen.

[.::BaRkSeH::.]

i know how you feel, alcoholism runs through my family gah. when i was going through it with my dad i spoke to his mum even though we weren't close about it and she tried to talk to him but idk now he's buggered off to russia. i have no idea what you could do except try get other family members to talk to her. really, your just gonna have to tell her how you feel and how it's affecting you, it's only thing you can do rly

[Jord]

I won't follow her. What upsets me most is that my real dad moved back to Ireland because he was an alcoholic, and now mum is going down the same road. But also, I have lost so much respect for her she's just another person in the house to me now, not like a mother.

Hide her stuff it will be for her own good!

If she carries on like this she will be too used to having a drink at 3 then 6 etc

If you hide it she wont have nothing she will know she can go without a drink and in due time start only having drink once a day, week, or as a treat.

[ToxicPaddy]

When I hide it she goes ******* bezerk. She's in bed now, best place for her.

[MissAlice]

That must of been an extremely difficult position to be left in last night. You did really well to cope . Thank goodness your Gran was around to at least give you some support when you needed it. You're 14 and to be honest, your mother should be supporting you and not you having to support her. School work is going to become even more important than it is now, and you should be able to at least come home and discuss school life because your future career will be at stake soon. If you feel you really need to to talk to someone, then maybe you've heard of an organisation called Child Line, www.childline.org.uk take a read and if you feel comfortable you can call them on 0800 1111, all calls are free, private and confidential, all the counsellors are trained, they will listen to you and try to help you, and at least give you some guidance.

[Technologic]

My mum was a alcoholic so i know how you feel but 3 years ago she cehcked into rehab after getting arrested in pizza express, after 3 months she was doing well and checked out. Now 3 years later she has just finished her councelling degree and is about to set up a large councilling business (first clients are next week)

So i guess rehab is the only way but be warned it is very expensive .
£30,000

[Jord]

Try cut it down when shes sleeping pour half of her vodka down the sink (if she drinks it) Put water

Or pour her like wine down the sink
Because she will be drunk she wont know if like shes drank it allready.

[Access]

Sounds like the best option for you and your siblings now would be to go and stay with your gran for a while, on the other hand 09011 30 50 60 theres the Jeremy Kyle show number and as an extra number..

If you're having problems with relatives and need answers for a chance to appear on the show call 0161 827 2399 or email [email protected]


Good luck with whatever you do and brb watching Jeremy Kyle.

[Aces]

Just stick together with your siblings, you have to ignore your mothers immature behavior and make sure you never turn out like her.