I'm 18, she just turned 16, need opinion.

[Tylenol]

Well if she was 15 and you would have had sex it would have been against the law and you could of been locked up for a few years

Here it's not like that.

[Yoshimitsui]

Ok, first off relationships arn't all about sex, thats the last thing on my mind. And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

Maybe not, but to do it legally there is!

[J0SH]

Well I'll answer your question, it's only a few years, it's perfectly normal. I know my friends parents who are like 20 years apart :S But they're old now so it's normal, but as you're only a few years it's fine.

[Ostinato]

In all honesty I think the question you should be asking is whether or not YOU have a problem with the age gap - not what others think about it.

If you like this girl and think you 2 could make a go of things then seriously, what is 2 years or so? Surely you would rather look back in a few times and iether still be with her andbe happy, or be happy that you tried it out and seen how things went rather than just giving up at the first hurdle because you are too worried about the age gap! If you don't carry it through because of something petty, then I tell you now - you will look back and question what could have came out of it.

However, on the other hand you need to have a hard think and decide whether you yourself have any sort of issue with it. Having such an age gap can raise problems for instance with the groups of friends you will be involved in and you'll maybe wanna do things she isn't able too yet or whatever.

To sum up haha I just think you need to review your own opinion on it and then go with what your gut instict is. Don't get hung up on what other peoples think because it's what you care about that matters.

[brandon]

Ok, first off relationships arn't all about sex, thats the last thing on my mind. And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

I know I'm right, but whatever. I'm not saying that you're going to have sex I'm just saying you would get a lot more criticism if she wasn't legal. Because if you WERE having sex then it would be illegal and therefore you'd get more criticism.

Edit - If it's different in your country then fair enough.

[Nemo]

Well I'll answer your question, it's only a few years, it's perfectly normal. I know my friends parents who are like 20 years apart :S But they're old now so it's normal, but as you're only a few years it's fine.

20 years aint normal at any age O.o

[J0SH]

20 years aint normal at any age O.o

The guys like 40 she's like 20, maybe she likes older men

[Jam]

My friends parents are about 50 & 62.

[FlyingJesus]

And second, there is no age "minimum" when you can have sex.

I like your thinking! Hahaha jk

[buttons]

what you're 18 and not "all interested" in sex, crazyyy. nah i'm joking. My brother is 19 and he is datin a 17 year old, she was 16 at the beginning of the relationship, and no-one said nothing. it's not a big deal really. i dated a 19 year old when i was 14 and no1 said anything bout that either, er...