What should I do next?

[anonymus]

Well k. For a bit of time i've been off the idea of having a girlfriend and just wanted to get on with learning.
Now today in my lesson (only one) there was this new girl. Now I can't stop thinking about her? I personally don't believe in "love at first sight" and still don't but I don't know what I should do next? Avoid her?
I havn't had the chance to speak to her yet, I only saw her once out of the lesson and she was with the "popular" crowd. I bet your all like "whats that got to do with it?". Well: I have no interest with them (blokes and sports, not very sporty), not the most confident of people and I mean with any new person I don't often speak to, and I'm not exactly the fittest guy in the area, or sportiest as said before.

So what should I do next? Avoid her and avoid the damage it may cause on me or go for it?
Also any tips on how to go for it (if thats what you say)?

[Clowgon]

Go for it. Life is too short hanging around waiting for something coming to you. Take this chance NOW! Or you'll regret it for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!

[flyingbrick]

You're ******.

This is school we're talking about. If she's a popular kid who hasn't ever talked to you, and you're a geek who can't play football, then there's no chance.

Don't bother even trying, unless you're willing to wait until you've both grown up and the social ranking system isn't as important.

Either that, or start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes. Popular girls like the badboys.

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[flyingbrick]

And ignore that clown above. What you will regret for the rest of your life is the embarrasment and humiliating rejection you could have spared yourself from by being less mad.


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[leah]

split personality eh nik?
erm Id get to know her a bit first, before you tell her you like her.
She might find it a bit weird coming from some random dude she doesn't speak to lol

[Janet Snakehole]

i reckon go for it
but get to know her first yeah?

[anonymus]

that's what I meant of course I'd get to know her first, then try it

[Clowgon]

You're ******.

This is school we're talking about. If she's a popular kid who hasn't ever talked to you, and you're a geek who can't play football, then there's no chance.

Don't bother even trying, unless you're willing to wait until you've both grown up and the social ranking system isn't as important.

Either that, or start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes. Popular girls like the badboys.

And ignore that clown above. What you will regret for the rest of your life is the embarrasment and humiliating rejection you could have spared yourself from by being less mad.

Lol clown. If there a "CLOWN" here it's you. Why does he need to start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes to get a girl. It's YOU who needs to get out more and "socialize" because you are talking complete ****

Oh i never knew you had to play football to get a girl. :rolleyes:

[flyingbrick]

Lol clown. If there a "CLOWN" here it's you. Why does he need to start lifting weights and smoking cigarettes to get a girl. It's YOU who needs to get out more and "socialize" because you are talking complete ****

Oh i never knew you had to play football to get a girl. :rolleyes:

Hah!

I have plenty of a social life, as a matter of fact......and I go out really quite often.

This is school we are talking about - school isn't real life.

School is one big social class system - theres the popular kids, the geeks, and the averages. The popular kids only go out with the popular kids, and thats a fact.

His best chance is an average.

True, this isnt the case when these popular kids actually grow up and become wiser - then they start to appreciate personallity and other factors.

But while he is at school, and he is a geek, and she is a popular person.....he hasn't a chance in hell.

You lot telling him to "go for it" will just end in tears and embarrassment. I'm simply making sure he isn't disapointed.

[The Cullens]

Well first of all talk to her and try and get to know her. Don't go for it until you know she likes you. Just say simply ''Hi'' to her or ''How r u'' introduce yourself and just frekkin talk to her!