Internet 'love'

[Axel]

i thought i trusted people online but i've just realised i can't. shame.

oh jen.

[Bun]

Hey, I haven't posted here in so long.
Anyways!
I'm not the type to get up in someone's face or take one side or the other.
To each their own, but I want to add my input here nonetheless.

Typically, Habbo relationships don't work out. You can make great friends from Habbo, what with the security of your identity intact and having the will to say anything and never see a person again, but sometimes having strong feelings fore someone just end in hurt and grief. In most cases, you make a friend and then somewhere along the track you end up losing touch. Kind of a win/lose situation, though it really does depend on how you look at it; while at the time you make a friend, they may or may not be there in the future.

However, there is more to most relationships (friend or more) on Habbo than the browser itself - instant messenger and social networking sites playing a huge role in most people's relationships online, which could account the same for a random add who you would later meet in a real life instance - "myspace meetup anyone?" - but whether you would want to meet your Habbo friends, or not, I don't know.

Here is my example, for instance; when I was really young, I made a good friend on Habbo in 2004/2005, and through that friend I met her best friend, who happens to be my best friend now, not to mention the guy that I love and care for with the deepest sincerity. Although I met my friend, now friends, on Habbo UK, I am from Australia and my friends are from Canada. It's eighteen hours difference which, if you look at it, is alot of time and space. I haven't met my best friend in real life, or at least not to touch, but I videocall him, talk to him on the phone and all types of things which could account for real life instances where I would meet up with any normal friend. No, I don't act different around him, and no, I don't hide hidden facts from him. With the money I make from my weekend job, I am spending two months with his family in his country and then he is doing the same very soon. I plan to, when I finish highschool, move to Canada. I must press that, no, I'm taking the easy route by loving someone that I first met online, and no, it's not because I am desperate or alone; it's simply that I had a lot in common with this person and I can't plan how I end up feeling for someone.

I don't think that most relationships work, but I know that mine does.
I have been very much open and dedicated to our friendship and he has the same, and I know that he is legitimately who he says he is because I know his cousins, his friends and his immediate family and he the same to me. I suppose that if you look hard enough, and beyond the stereotype that 'e-dating' has meshed itself, you can find good friends who could ultimately change your life. Do you think of /some/ of your online friends the same that you think of your real life friends? I'm sure you don't log on with the intention of only talking to them about Habbo related things. How is it in any case different with love, when a person is supposed to morally fall inlove with someone for who they are, and if the person involved in the instance is truly being themselves? Just be safe, and make sure that they're a real person.

So, overlook my comment or let it sway your opinion, just don't bother adding some narrow-minded, smart alec opinion. I just wanted to add it to the archive. I won't read it anyway, probably.

~ Alix

i never even read that but it looks good so im gonna rep u lol

[leah]

Hey, I haven't posted here in so long.
Anyways!
I'm not the type to get up in someone's face or take one side or the other.
To each their own, but I want to add my input here nonetheless.

Typically, Habbo relationships don't work out. You can make great friends from Habbo, what with the security of your identity intact and having the will to say anything and never see a person again, but sometimes having strong feelings fore someone just end in hurt and grief. In most cases, you make a friend and then somewhere along the track you end up losing touch. Kind of a win/lose situation, though it really does depend on how you look at it; while at the time you make a friend, they may or may not be there in the future.

However, there is more to most relationships (friend or more) on Habbo than the browser itself - instant messenger and social networking sites playing a huge role in most people's relationships online, which could account the same for a random add who you would later meet in a real life instance - "myspace meetup anyone?" - but whether you would want to meet your Habbo friends, or not, I don't know.

Here is my example, for instance; when I was really young, I made a good friend on Habbo in 2004/2005, and through that friend I met her best friend, who happens to be my best friend now, not to mention the guy that I love and care for with the deepest sincerity. Although I met my friend, now friends, on Habbo UK, I am from Australia and my friends are from Canada. It's eighteen hours difference which, if you look at it, is alot of time and space. I haven't met my best friend in real life, or at least not to touch, but I videocall him, talk to him on the phone and all types of things which could account for real life instances where I would meet up with any normal friend. No, I don't act different around him, and no, I don't hide hidden facts from him. With the money I make from my weekend job, I am spending two months with his family in his country and then he is doing the same very soon. I plan to, when I finish highschool, move to Canada. I must press that, no, I'm taking the easy route by loving someone that I first met online, and no, it's not because I am desperate or alone; it's simply that I had a lot in common with this person and I can't plan how I end up feeling for someone.

I don't think that most relationships work, but I know that mine does.
I have been very much open and dedicated to our friendship and he has the same, and I know that he is legitimately who he says he is because I know his cousins, his friends and his immediate family and he the same to me. I suppose that if you look hard enough, and beyond the stereotype that 'e-dating' has meshed itself, you can find good friends who could ultimately change your life. Do you think of /some/ of your online friends the same that you think of your real life friends? I'm sure you don't log on with the intention of only talking to them about Habbo related things. How is it in any case different with love, when a person is supposed to morally fall inlove with someone for who they are, and if the person involved in the instance is truly being themselves? Just be safe, and make sure that they're a real person.

So, overlook my comment or let it sway your opinion, just don't bother adding some narrow-minded, smart alec opinion. I just wanted to add it to the archive. I won't read it anyway, probably.

~ Alix

I agree. it is possible.

[Blinger1]

Hey, I haven't posted here in so long.
Anyways!
I'm not the type to get up in someone's face or take one side or the other.
To each their own, but I want to add my input here nonetheless.

Typically, Habbo relationships don't work out. You can make great friends from Habbo, what with the security of your identity intact and having the will to say anything and never see a person again, but sometimes having strong feelings fore someone just end in hurt and grief. In most cases, you make a friend and then somewhere along the track you end up losing touch. Kind of a win/lose situation, though it really does depend on how you look at it; while at the time you make a friend, they may or may not be there in the future.

However, there is more to most relationships (friend or more) on Habbo than the browser itself - instant messenger and social networking sites playing a huge role in most people's relationships online, which could account the same for a random add who you would later meet in a real life instance - "myspace meetup anyone?" - but whether you would want to meet your Habbo friends, or not, I don't know.

Here is my example, for instance; when I was really young, I made a good friend on Habbo in 2004/2005, and through that friend I met her best friend, who happens to be my best friend now, not to mention the guy that I love and care for with the deepest sincerity. Although I met my friend, now friends, on Habbo UK, I am from Australia and my friends are from Canada. It's eighteen hours difference which, if you look at it, is alot of time and space. I haven't met my best friend in real life, or at least not to touch, but I videocall him, talk to him on the phone and all types of things which could account for real life instances where I would meet up with any normal friend. No, I don't act different around him, and no, I don't hide hidden facts from him. With the money I make from my weekend job, I am spending two months with his family in his country and then he is doing the same very soon. I plan to, when I finish highschool, move to Canada. I must press that, no, I'm taking the easy route by loving someone that I first met online, and no, it's not because I am desperate or alone; it's simply that I had a lot in common with this person and I can't plan how I end up feeling for someone.

I don't think that most relationships work, but I know that mine does.
I have been very much open and dedicated to our friendship and he has the same, and I know that he is legitimately who he says he is because I know his cousins, his friends and his immediate family and he the same to me. I suppose that if you look hard enough, and beyond the stereotype that 'e-dating' has meshed itself, you can find good friends who could ultimately change your life. Do you think of /some/ of your online friends the same that you think of your real life friends? I'm sure you don't log on with the intention of only talking to them about Habbo related things. How is it in any case different with love, when a person is supposed to morally fall inlove with someone for who they are, and if the person involved in the instance is truly being themselves? Just be safe, and make sure that they're a real person.

So, overlook my comment or let it sway your opinion, just don't bother adding some narrow-minded, smart alec opinion. I just wanted to add it to the archive. I won't read it anyway, probably.

~ Alix

AUSSIE PRIDE . what a story

[DeejayMachoo$]

I met my girlfriend online and i loved her too pieces before we started going out and meeting irl regually and i love her even more now

[Sammeth.]

I don't think you can feel true love online. Sure you may feel close to someone, but feeling true pure passion for someone is just impossible, in my opinion. I mean love isn't just about one feeling for someone, its about intimacy and devotion and trust and so many other things. I guess it's different if you do actually see the person in your real life, but I would never be able to e-date and say that I truly loved my e-bf. I prefer the type of partner you can interact with and you know, physically be with as well as emotionally.

[Vodge]

yeh u can and im meetin them soon irl

[e5]

If you've experienced love in real life, you'd probably realise that it's nothing like the same as e-love or e-dating. lol sure you can flirt online, but I don't. I think e-dating is for saddos

I think I did it once but I was pretty much taking the piss coz i was bored, i mean it's onlineeeeee fgs LOL

[MrGazet]

can't say really as i've never experienced one but me thinks its possible.
as for e-mates theres a few that i truly care like my rl mates

[Nixt]

Reminds me of Karl and Gemma

Oh how I miss the old days of Habbox! I laughed.

Personally I believe it is a possible to perhaps find a potential partner online, but for the relationship to work and continue it must become an offline thing.