Love;

[Emotions]

Has anyone ever loved anyone who constantly treats them like poo, has lack of interest in them and generally doesn't care.

It's awful, I'm in that situation and dunno what to do.

Anyone the same?

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[Emotions]

I absolutely adore this person. It's so awful.

[Jackk]

tell them to do one?
why love someone when they treat you like ****e?

[cocaine]

i know its hard but you should think of yourself in the long term; while you're still wasting your time with this person, you're also throwing away the chance of meeting someone new and who would be worth your time.

[buttons]

I tend to go for guys like that a lot :@ I did have a relationship like that once, I was just there for him when he needed something, not as though he could truly rely on me but sometimes he could be really nice so I just thought over his good points and made up excuses to stay with him :/ and I was only ever happy if he was so that didn't make it any better..

I wouldn't say it was love though because I don't think you can be in love if it's just a one-sided thing so I just gave up after a while. I think boys like that just totally shatter your confidence and you feel like you don't deserve better and that you're "lucky" to have them but you're really not, you already seem like you've realised that so you should do something about it, no point holding onto a relationship with someone who you can do better than

[Mentor]

Get a little self respect and dump their arse. They don't sound like their worth the time.

[Emotions]

tell them to do one?
why love someone when they treat you like ****e?

I just did. :p

i know its hard but you should think of yourself in the long term; while you're still wasting your time with this person, you're also throwing away the chance of meeting someone new and who would be worth your time.

I guess so. But I'm really self-concious, and this person understands that. I say constantly that this person is too good for me, etc... so evidently this person feels they can treat me like crap due to my lack of confidence, assuming I won't end it. So difficult.

I tend to go for guys like that a lot :@ I did have a relationship like that once, I was just there for him when he needed something, not as though he could truly rely on me but sometimes he could be really nice so I just thought over his good points and made up excuses to stay with him :/ and I was only ever happy if he was so that didn't make it any better..

I wouldn't say it was love though because I don't think you can be in love if it's just a one-sided thing so I just gave up after a while. I think boys like that just totally shatter your confidence and you feel like you don't deserve better and that you're "lucky" to have them but you're really not, you already seem like you've realised that so you should do something about it, no point holding onto a relationship with someone who you can do better than

I agree with you totally and I understand what you say. It's a difficult situation though, I've ended it now. But I still love this person to pieces. It is shattering - you're right.

[cocaine]

I guess so. But I'm really self-confident, and this person understands that. I say constantly that this person is too good for me, etc... so evidently this person feels they can treat me like crap due to my lack of confidence, assuming I won't end it. So difficult.

you said you're really confident yet you say they think they treat you like crap because of your lack of confidence? :S

[Emotions]

you said you're really confident yet you say they think they treat you like crap because of your lack of confidence? :S

I meant self-concious. I've edited it now lol

[cocaine]

I meant self-concious. I've edited it now lol

oh right haha.
if you absolutely cannot gain confidence then you at least shouldn't show it to the person. they have no right to treat you like crap and if you show that you can stand up for yourself, by telling them to **** off then they'll think twice again about how they treat you.