This is embarrasing but...

[Jay.]

It's easier to speak to people you don't know, people that you wont come into contact with in later life, people who aren't face-to-face. The pressure is relieved. I hope everyone here will respect that this is, infact, a serious problem, and I hope it is allowed.

I have read the forum specific rules and...

Sexual Content which is NOT ALLOWED

Describing or discussing sexual acts
Any images (including in situations listed in the "allowed" section.)
Graphic descriptions of sexual organs
Any sexual content that may offend and/or disturb other users.
Discussing non-health issues regarding sexual organs.
Telling of 'Sex stories'.

The NOT ALLOWED section states that you're not allowed to post about "Graphic descriptions of sexual organs" this is in fact about my penis, but I contacted a moderator, and he has no problem with me posting this. So, here goes... (I added it into a spoiler after much thought... If you are over the age of 16 or 18, idk, just, open the spoiler at your own free will.

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I need someone who has had experience either ************ or someone who has had sexual intercourse. My pituitary gland has been damaged, somehow, and I am currently assigned to Growth Hormone, as well as having a shot of testosterone to, hopefully start my puberty. I have been diagnosed with delayed puberty, however the delayed puberty is, REALLY delayed. I was 5ft 1 at the age of 16, which is really bad. I am now 17, and I am 5ft 9 (or 10) and am REALLY happy. They wanted me to grow first, before starting to go through puberty, as you can't grow as much after puberty, or something like that. This has nothing to do with my problem (I don't think) but just incase, I think this could be the problem.

The shot of testosterone, I think, worked. Pubic hair growth has started, and I now ********** some days, meaning I am capable of ejaculating. However, I don't think the penis is at it's biggest, but I don't know. Anyway, as you know, there is the foreskin of the penis and the well, inside? When I am erect, there is a sort of "circle" or something, where I can see the inside of my penis. I cannot however, pull my foreskin right back (I think that happens during sexual intercourse, idk.) But, when I touch the inside of the penis, or anything else does, it hurts. This has lead me to think... This is bad. This is really bad. I've been putting sexual contact off with my girlfriend lately, because even if my bed sheet touches the inside, it REALLY hurts. I don't know why. I haven't been circumcised either.

My girlfriend has been discussing sexual intercourse. I've researched about sex, and I'm ready. I love her, and she loves me, she respects that I have to think about it, I don't want to go through with it like this though. What do I do? I'm hoping that seeing a GP is the LAST thing on my agenda. I think I read that it can be a little sensitive, but I have no idea. Someone said start touching it and it'll get used to it, but I'm afraid to go anywhere near it. This is really affecting my life, and I'm stressing out over this. Please, just please, no nasty comments either. If I do start to get teased or mocked by this, I think I'm just going to leave the forum, because, this is "no laughing matter". I also want to know, when the foreskin is pulled back during sex, does it hurt? Well, I know it does but, how much does it hurt? A lot?

Please, answer APPROPRIATELY!

Just realised, the filter caught me on a scientific word?!?!?
I don't want to avoid the filter, but lets just say "playing with myself" will go nicely. Begins with M, 10 letters, sometimes it can be said as 4 letters beginning with W.

[untrustus]

I also want to know, when the foreskin is pulled back during sex, does it hurt? Well, I know it does but, how much does it hurt? A lot?

it doesn't hurt.

[Jay.]

A friend told me that it hurts both the man and woman when you first loose your virginity.

[FlyingJesus]

You're taller now than either of us who've replied so far

Anyways, the size you can't really help, that's not something that'll change with the drugs generally as far as I'm aware (all those internet "grow 3 inches!!!" wonder pills are fakes and the only real way is through surgery) but the pain could be a real problem.
Not being able to pull back all the way is more common than you might think - I had that same problem a few years back (and still now doesn't go back on its own like many peoples' do), and a friend of mine only just recently got himself sorted, but that may actually be the cause of the pain. I was lucky enough with mine that it was never a massive problem, but it's entirely possible that due to the hygiene problems you can develop thrush which would probably make it rather less than fun.

Seeing a doctor really is the best thing you can do, especially if you've had other growth and health problems. Note that the foreskin thing isn't a big problem other than perhaps for hygiene and it doesn't HAVE to go back for sex, it's just that a lot of people's do it natural when erect. Also yeah the "inside" bit under the skin called the glans can be very sensitive but shouldn't really be painful just for a normal touch, and losing your virginity as a man isn't generally painful unless you're big and she's very tight

[MrRem]

A friend told me that it hurts both the man and woman when you first loose your virginity.

Your friend lied.
Sex doesn't hurt males unless the female isn't properly aroused.

It's easier to speak to people you don't know, people that you wont come into contact with in later life, people who aren't face-to-face. The pressure is relieved. I hope everyone here will respect that this is, infact, a serious problem, and I hope it is allowed.

I have read the forum specific rules and...


The NOT ALLOWED section states that you're not allowed to post about "Graphic descriptions of sexual organs" this is in fact about my penis, but I contacted a moderator, and he has no problem with me posting this. So, here goes... (I added it into a spoiler after much thought... If you are over the age of 16 or 18, idk, just, open the spoiler at your own free will.

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I need someone who has had experience either ************ or someone who has had sexual intercourse. My pituitary gland has been damaged, somehow, and I am currently assigned to Growth Hormone, as well as having a shot of testosterone to, hopefully start my puberty. I have been diagnosed with delayed puberty, however the delayed puberty is, REALLY delayed. I was 5ft 1 at the age of 16, which is really bad. I am now 17, and I am 5ft 9 (or 10) and am REALLY happy. They wanted me to grow first, before starting to go through puberty, as you can't grow as much after puberty, or something like that. This has nothing to do with my problem (I don't think) but just incase, I think this could be the problem.

The shot of testosterone, I think, worked. Pubic hair growth has started, and I now ********** some days, meaning I am capable of ejaculating. However, I don't think the penis is at it's biggest, but I don't know. Anyway, as you know, there is the foreskin of the penis and the well, inside? When I am erect, there is a sort of "circle" or something, where I can see the inside of my penis. I cannot however, pull my foreskin right back (I think that happens during sexual intercourse, idk.) But, when I touch the inside of the penis, or anything else does, it hurts. This has lead me to think... This is bad. This is really bad. I've been putting sexual contact off with my girlfriend lately, because even if my bed sheet touches the inside, it REALLY hurts. I don't know why. I haven't been circumcised either.

My girlfriend has been discussing sexual intercourse. I've researched about sex, and I'm ready. I love her, and she loves me, she respects that I have to think about it, I don't want to go through with it like this though. What do I do? I'm hoping that seeing a GP is the LAST thing on my agenda. I think I read that it can be a little sensitive, but I have no idea. Someone said start touching it and it'll get used to it, but I'm afraid to go anywhere near it. This is really affecting my life, and I'm stressing out over this. Please, just please, no nasty comments either. If I do start to get teased or mocked by this, I think I'm just going to leave the forum, because, this is "no laughing matter". I also want to know, when the foreskin is pulled back during sex, does it hurt? Well, I know it does but, how much does it hurt? A lot?

Please, answer APPROPRIATELY!

Just realised, the filter caught me on a scientific word?!?!?
I don't want to avoid the filter, but lets just say "playing with myself" will go nicely. Begins with M, 10 letters, sometimes it can be said as 4 letters beginning with W.

As for your pain, it sounds like hyper sensitivity.
I don't recommend asking for medical advice here, especially given the young audience that will simply use Google rather than experience to answer your problem.

Arrange a consultation with your local GP and they will be able to direct you to the correct path to over come this.

Good luck

[Jay.]

Thanks a lot. This has really reassured me I'm actually quite happy at the moment LOL. I go back the specialist around November, I'll speak to them there.

[MrRem]

No worries Jay.

[Grippz]

There is nothing wrong with you down below. You're perfectly normal. It should not hurt when you retract the foreskin for someone that has started puberty as normal. But as you have said your a 'late bloomer' (if you like) and you're penis isn't ready for any sort of sexual activity as of yet. Just give it a while and see how it goes. Nothing wrong with you down below your body just isn't ready! Why not try some mutual mastúrbation if you're really wanting to have some sort of sexual activity with your girlfriend but seriously Your just not ready. Nothing to worry about! Give yourself some more time, Sounds like those injections are working.

Good luck!

[Jay.]

There is nothing wrong with you down below. You're perfectly normal. It should not hurt when you retract the foreskin for someone that has started puberty as normal. But as you have said your a 'late bloomer' (if you like) and you're penis isn't ready for any sort of sexual activity as of yet. Just give it a while and see how it goes. Nothing wrong with you down below your body just isn't ready! Why not try some mutual mastúrbation if you're really wanting to have some sort of sexual activity with your girlfriend but seriously Your just not ready. Nothing to worry about! Give yourself some more time, Sounds like those injections are working.

Good luck!

Thanks a lot +rep

[Xoim]

Ima put my answer in a spoiler

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Im 15... And can pull it all the way back...
You could consider getting circumsised.
But I mean... it isn't that hard to do, it does hurt for the first few times. but if you get through the pain you will be flying.
I must stress this.
If you use a condom (which you should Mister!) they latex should ease off the forskin.

The forskin is higly adaptable.
And tbh I was worried about this about not being able to pull back.
But I was researching on some websites.
And if you use a type of lube or while your in the shower attepmt to pull it back as far as you can bur not so much as it hurts.

As you may feel pain.
But just keep trying I htough I couldn't And I can

Also The average size off a penis is 6" so if your worried about penis size and your 5-6 you shouldn't.

This is the most appropriate answer I can give in this situation.

Edit: I've never had sex but A few off my friends have so... yeah

Also... If a mod feels I am avoiding rules. I am not I am merely helping someone out just saying Loool!

Hope this helped