how to put someone off me?!

[Pyroka]

but STILL be friends with them?

he 100% knows i'm not interested. he is literally the only guy i've never lead on or flirted with. i tell him about guys i like and it's normally followed with "he's not good enough for you". he says i'd be his perfect girl if i wasn't way out his league because i "like weird, geeky things + act like one of the guys" (most my friends are boys & i don't normally get on with girls, i'm not a total pig but i'll burp openly, make sexual innuendos and i'm not really girly) so acting NOT feminine won't put him off.

k he sticks up for me, tells me he's proud of me, buys me things :eusa_whis. now he's all like "you're adorable", "i'm so proud of you" + sure that's probably what every single girl wants. not me. not from him anyway. he'll go into stupid moods "why can't i find a girlfriend whos into the same things as me, why can't i find a girl like you who's not out my league?"

it's honestly annoying me because i want to be friends with him but i feel so so uncomfortable about it, i'm actually not sure if he does like me in that way but he's all cryptic about stuff + saying all this weird **** it starts to creep me out.... + i don't want to talk about it with him because i know i'll just end up shouting at him n ruining everything

+rep for mature answers on how to handle it xoxoxo

he deffo likes u omg itd be less obvious if he just stuck it in u ;/

but uhhh well thing is if u wanna be mates with him ull have to put up with it, otherwise ull have to ditch him. things like that dont tend to end nicely, i mean you cant say "sorry but stop trying to be my boyfriend im not interested btw lets be friends"......... it sucks, and you both lose out on it, but its one of those sitchz which you sorta have 2 options and ones being up front about it and ones not. i mean you could always just wait it out until he stops wantin ya but how long dya think thatll take?? youll probs end up falling out between now and then!

your choice jennifer

[JackBuddy]

put some melted cheese on your finger and say you found it in your pants.

[Pyroka]

put some melted cheese on your finger and say you found it in your pants.

hello jackbuddy did you see that tracey beaker has started a new series im sure youd LOVE it

[JackBuddy]

hello jackbuddy did you see that tracey beaker has started a new series im sure youd LOVE it

haha lol really?? haven't heard from asim in yonks! hope uni is going well, i just failed a chemistry test lol

[leah]

Get with someone in front of him or try and set him up with someone else. If you don't want to talk to him about it in fear of wrecking your friendship then being sneaky and sly is the only way to go about it. If you get with people it might hit home that you're not interested in him or if you find someone else that he can focus his romantic feelings towards he wouldn't pester you so much with them!

[Pyroka]

Get with someone in front of him or try and set him up with someone else. If you don't want to talk to him about it in fear of wrecking your friendship then being sneaky and sly is the only way to go about it. If you get with people it might hit home that you're not interested in him or if you find someone else that he can focus his romantic feelings towards he wouldn't pester you so much with them!

true that, but he says that hes not good enough anyway so hes blatently looking for a sympathy ****

[buttons]

wear no make up, sure to work

funny thing is he suggested i don't wear any and says i look hella better without it so probably just so no-one else will look at me!

God I've been in that exact situation before and still is now >.<

Whoa,he really really likes you and is persistent.it's hard to get someone off you and still be friends cause it is very uncomfortable after all what happened and the friendship is no longer the same like I experienced before.

I reckon you should have a small talk about it and not let him slip off the convo and focuses on the matter.It's easier if you guys go hang out at your favourite spot just the two of u.Start by some random chats and eventually into the matter.

Tell him what you feels and ask him to just listen to you without interrupting.Tell him that you are very uncomfortable and unhappy with his actions if continues so and the chances of you guys' friendship torn apart if he is still persistent.

If he still not giving up,JUST TELL IT STRAIGHT TO HIS FACE.It's harsh but you gotta do it sometimes.

Much luck hun

sorry for dp >.< was lagging really bad -.-'



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thank you

he deffo likes u omg itd be less obvious if he just stuck it in u ;/

but uhhh well thing is if u wanna be mates with him ull have to put up with it, otherwise ull have to ditch him. things like that dont tend to end nicely, i mean you cant say "sorry but stop trying to be my boyfriend im not interested btw lets be friends"......... it sucks, and you both lose out on it, but its one of those sitchz which you sorta have 2 options and ones being up front about it and ones not. i mean you could always just wait it out until he stops wantin ya but how long dya think thatll take?? youll probs end up falling out between now and then!

your choice jennifer

kk x

put some melted cheese on your finger and say you found it in your pants.

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hello jackbuddy did you see that tracey beaker has started a new series im sure youd LOVE it

oh missed it

Get with someone in front of him or try and set him up with someone else. If you don't want to talk to him about it in fear of wrecking your friendship then being sneaky and sly is the only way to go about it. If you get with people it might hit home that you're not interested in him or if you find someone else that he can focus his romantic feelings towards he wouldn't pester you so much with them!

hmm... on tuesday when i'm back at college i'm sure i'll be able to tell him all about my weekend & make him see i'm NOT interested he says there's some chick he likes but she's a total *******, funnily enough her name is JENNIE (coincidence) and she's slept with 4 of his friends (NOT ME!) which apparently puts him off her. if that puts him off her i dunno how i dont. i'm deffo just gonna talk about boys all week until he mentions one little thing about us i'll tell him it's uncomfortable, if he doesn't get it i'll be harsher

[MrGazet]

funny thing is he suggested i don't wear any and says i look hella better without it so probably just so no-one else will look at me!

thank you

kk x

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oh missed it

hmm... on tuesday when i'm back at college i'm sure i'll be able to tell him all about my weekend & make him see i'm NOT interested he says there's some chick he likes but she's a total *******, funnily enough her name is JENNIE (coincidence) and she's slept with 4 of his friends (NOT ME!) which apparently puts him off her. if that puts him off her i dunno how i dont. i'm deffo just gonna talk about boys all week until he mentions one little thing about us i'll tell him it's uncomfortable, if he doesn't get it i'll be harsher

yeah,you should do that and take it slowly at 1st.but if he is still deaf,just give it to him! :eusa_danc

[FlyingJesus]

hmm... on tuesday when i'm back at college i'm sure i'll be able to tell him all about my weekend & make him see i'm NOT interested he says there's some chick he likes but she's a total *******, funnily enough her name is JENNIE (coincidence) and she's slept with 4 of his friends (NOT ME!) which apparently puts him off her. if that puts him off her i dunno how i dont. i'm deffo just gonna talk about boys all week until he mentions one little thing about us i'll tell him it's uncomfortable, if he doesn't get it i'll be harsher

With that in mind why don't you get with his friends? If they're all hideous then probably not worth it but surely he has at least one who's missing an ear or lives in a caravan

[crazed]

but STILL be friends with them?

he 100% knows i'm not interested. he is literally the only guy i've never lead on or flirted with. i tell him about guys i like and it's normally followed with "he's not good enough for you". he says i'd be his perfect girl if i wasn't way out his league because i "like weird, geeky things + act like one of the guys" (most my friends are boys & i don't normally get on with girls, i'm not a total pig but i'll burp openly, make sexual innuendos and i'm not really girly) so acting NOT feminine won't put him off.

k he sticks up for me, tells me he's proud of me, buys me things :eusa_whis. now he's all like "you're adorable", "i'm so proud of you" + sure that's probably what every single girl wants. not me. not from him anyway. he'll go into stupid moods "why can't i find a girlfriend whos into the same things as me, why can't i find a girl like you who's not out my league?"

it's honestly annoying me because i want to be friends with him but i feel so so uncomfortable about it, i'm actually not sure if he does like me in that way but he's all cryptic about stuff + saying all this weird **** it starts to creep me out.... + i don't want to talk about it with him because i know i'll just end up shouting at him n ruining everything

+rep for mature answers on how to handle it xoxoxo

My friend irl has this problem, except she has a boyfriend, and is pregnant. Ew. But, she got me to have a word, and say like you know, she isn't intersted in being with him, and shouldn't waste his time trying when he could be chasing another hot piece of ass (well she didn't ask me to say that but I felt it was needed ). So I think you should tell him, or get someone else to have a word. I hope all goes well.