Fostering

[Hecktix]

So you don't live with your dad?

Does your dad live alone or?

[Gibs960]

He lives with my step mum, she put him up to it, won't listen to me, when she says it has to happen,

[Hecktix]

He lives with my step mum, she put him up to it, won't listen to me, when she says it has to happen,

Does she have kids?

[dirrty]

maybe theres more to it then just simply adopting. i think if it makes your dad happy, then you should be happy instead of acting like a baby refusing to visit him until the childs gone.

[Gibs960]

Being a baby? Do you know how long I've waited to get close to my dad! I've waited about 6 years and then he says, we're fostering! I hate him!

[dirrty]

Being a baby? Do you know how long I've waited to get close to my dad! I've waited about 6 years and then he says, we're fostering! I hate him!

yes, being a baby lol.

I'm not going if he does foster until they get rid. so I'll be around 15 if they adopt next year.

have you told him you just want to spend more time with him. just attempt to have a heart-to-heart with him. just because he's fostering doesn't mean he doesn't care about you anymore, but you just have to see the bigger picture. if you feel you're being pushed aside, tell him or try to see him more. if that doesn't work then talk to you step-mum as she may feel for you and see if she can 'mediate' with you two or do something. don't give up on family just because you have an issue with something.

[Gibs960]

Give up on family, I've never given up on my family, it's my Dad who wants to foster because of some random woman who comes and ruins my whole life, first she starts arguin with me and then blaiming me and my dad falls out with me, I wish everyone would just leave me alone, as soon as life is worth livin, this happens!

[IceNineKills]

although i'll get an infraction for this i'm still going to say it.

you seriously need to grow up. you seem like a little daddys boy. my family have fostered for 12 years now and i've met some amazing people through it and also helped changed many kids lives.

if you don't want to help others live a life like yours then you seriously need to start thinking. you're just being selfish.

[Gibs960]

Obviously you don't know me, my dad is an idiot who only favours his wife, they're only doing it for the money that much is obvious, and I don't want to go because when my dad meets someone knew whos gonna live with him, everyone else gets pushed out, last time it happened I got kicked out for 2 years. And plus you foster because you don't have kids, my dad has 4, and the ones that visit him both think no.

[luce]

i dont know why everyone is like you're so selfish. I would never want my parents to foster in a million years it give you the feeling like you're not good enough and that thing about split attention. Also she obviously old enough to have formed relationships with people and this foster child coming in may not get on with you so it would be like hell.

Just tell your dad in a mature way. Btw is it just you and your dad or is there your mum and other siblings aswell?!