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[kuzkasate]

Well you could always try little hints for example just sit down - look into her eyes, smile and do a little gesture for example stroke her hair or something. Normally, when I tried this it ended with a kiss

[Art]

Do you know if she is actually attracted to you?? Considering how many flings she seems to be having

Seems like she is just toying with you tbh.

[Blinger1]

There are two people.. One called mark and there WAS Jarrod... So i dunno :S
I dunno if she is attracted to me. Don't plan on asking either, lol !

[Catzsy]

Of course its not what i want to hear, lol . But, personally i think the opposite, she does want a relationship but only with Mark. The thing is that he has treated her bad some times (as in not talking to her for a while etc) and yeah, i can see it happening again..


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Yes I believe you are right. The good thing though is that over time she will forget him unless she renews the realtionship. You sound like a good and understanding friend. She is lucky!

[Blinger1]

Yes I believe you are right. The good thing though is that over time she will forget him unless she renews the realtionship. You sound like a good and understanding friend. She is lucky!

When she came over yesterday, it was the first time I had seen her in maybe 1.5-2 weeks (its a "long" time for us =/) and we acted normal together. She didn't say anything about the sms i sent her or anything..
I tried to give her a little massage () but with only one hand because she had a sore back. lol..

And like everytime she visits at night, i fell asleep while we were together. It sucks when i have to wake up to go for work in a few hours and she is over !

[Catzsy]

When she came over yesterday, it was the first time I had seen her in maybe 1.5-2 weeks (its a "long" time for us =/) and we acted normal together. She didn't say anything about the sms i sent her or anything..
I tried to give her a little massage () but with only one hand because she had a sore back. lol..

And like everytime she visits at night, i fell asleep while we were together. It sucks when i have to wake up to go for work in a few hours and she is over !

Sounds promising! She obviously values your friendship. xxx

[kuzkasate]

Yes she does value your friendship a lot.. hmm I can see your not the type of guy that'd just go for it straight away as in go up to her and lips her and stuff.. hmm maybe if you try to get a few fun days out or just try telling her in little parts (so I again, like hinting I suppose.)

Or maybe set it up so that she finds out that you like her without you telling her? For example, get a friend to tell her. Then ask what reaction she had and then see what she says/does.

If she says nothing - she probably isnt interested.

Just a way if your shy about it. Good thing is ofc, you can say it was all a joke if it all goes wrong :eusa_danc

[Blinger1]

Sounds promising! She obviously values your friendship. xxx

Defs does! Enough to stay awake messaging me at 2am in the morning even if she has to go to school the next day!!

Yes she does value your friendship a lot.. hmm I can see your not the type of guy that'd just go for it straight away as in go up to her and lips her and stuff.. hmm maybe if you try to get a few fun days out or just try telling her in little parts (so I again, like hinting I suppose.)

Or maybe set it up so that she finds out that you like her without you telling her? For example, get a friend to tell her. Then ask what reaction she had and then see what she says/does.

If she says nothing - she probably isnt interested.

Just a way if your shy about it. Good thing is ofc, you can say it was all a joke if it all goes wrong :eusa_danc

I certainly am a shy person, no doubt about it. But the stuff we do is... different? I mean, you don't just take a random to get yourself cleaned up down there (i was in the "waiting room") do you?, She knows that i like her, i told her by sms (+o() we catch up all the time, and fun days for us are more afternoons to evenings (she wakes up late, and i need an afternoon nap). So we tend to have movie nights, go to the drive in movies, just chill out at hers etc.

[Black_Apalachi]

I would leave this for awhile if I were you. As I said before just enjoy the friendship. It's probably not what you want to hear but reading the text messages there doesn't seem to be anyway she wants a relationship with anybody at the moment. =]

I thought she was calling you Mark when I first read that text! I think Catzsy's right though. If you keep being persistent when you know the situation, she might end up thinking you're pestering her and just get pissed off. It's probably best to wait until she's ready.

[kuzkasate]

Your so like me haha. But don't make my mistake - I was too shy to act and it ended up that she stopped liking me and that way I lost her forever probably... but if I would of acted - it would all of turned out different. Just ask her stuff like "So are ya ready for a relationship with someone?" little things like that should make her think that your getting ready to ask her.