Sexuality Problems [Help!]

[Gibs960]

So as many of you know in primary schools it used to be the "thing" to call people gay. But it's starting to annoy me because people are calling me gay, and as far as I know I'm not, don't get me wrong gay people are fine, more than fine our drama teacher is gay and he's awesome, but I've got a girlfriend and girls are starting to "avoid" me because the rest of the boys apart from the odd few are calling me gay. Any help :S thanks

[kuzkasate]

When they say that, just diss them back - any diss is better than saying "your gay." And when they say that just say "Gayy.. er yeh? I have a girlfriend and a life mate."

If it breaks into a dissing match just use Yo Mama jokes like these: Yo mama so fat she left the house in high heels and when she came back she had on flip flops. OR something like Yo mama so old that when she was in school there was no history class.

But the only way to get rid of them really is to say stuff back. It happens near enough to everyone - but if you show them your not the type of guy to stand for it - they WILL stop!

[Robbie]

primary school.

10 year olds say stuff.

end of.

[Gibs960]

It's just like cos now I'm wondering weather they're right. But then I think, I like girls. And it's sort of confusing, and even if I was I wouldn't feel comfortable saying I was, even in front of friends.

[DJ-Ains.T]

PUNCH THAT FOOL AND SHOW HIM U AINT NO GAY BOI.

[Nixt]

If you like girls, you're not gay, are ya?! Just ignore them, or just say something back... like "well your girlfriend wasn't saying that last night, mate". That is assuming you are then able to defend yourself should they choose to get physically violent.

[kuzkasate]

Well look, they are only little kids that want to get at you. Ignoring them sounds silly and won't really work but if you give them a bit of the mouth - it'll normally put them off. And if you think your gay - then just deal with it really, theres nothing you can do about it. If you say you also like girls, then your a bisexual and theres nothing wrong with that.

If they are really getting at you - perhaps you should talk to a teacher and basically say how pissed off you are with these idiots.

[Gibs960]

LOL at the bit about their gf I like girls but on the tv if I see a guy, and he has cool hair I'm like OMG I want his hair, I'm not sure if that makes me bi :S

[Nixt]

LOL at the bit about their gf I like girls but on the tv if I see a guy, and he has cool hair I'm like OMG I want his hair, I'm not sure if that makes me bi :S

No dear. How old are you? I think you're very young, and it's impossible to be 100% sure of your sexuality at such a young age - so don't worry about it for now. In time you will figure out your sexuality. Generally, unless you're getting sexual urges for men, I'd say you weren't bi or gay.

[Gibs960]

I'm 11, I don't really get "sexual urges" for any one.