Sexuality Problems [Help!]

[kuzkasate]

Theres nothing wrong with liking a guys haircut or w.e that doesnt make you gay lol.

Just get a few disses up or something or little lines which your gonna use to defend. You could try doing what my friend does, when ever say someone calls his mum a dirty :rude:, he turns round and says "Your mums a what?"

You could try that too, say when they call you gay you could say "Your dads what?"

[Nixt]

I'm 11, I don't really get "sexual urges" for any one.

Well then, you can't possibly know if you're going to be gay / straight or bi at this age. Just don't worry yourself about it .

[Shar]

I'm 11, I don't really get "sexual urges" for any one.

Hey Hun,
I think the best advice I can give to you is that your 11 years old and therefore as your so young you have a lot of time left to decide your sexual orientation, go for whatever makes you feel comfortable don't care about what others say.

[Gibs960]

But even if I were gay, I'm pressured into being gay by my "friends". I might try some of these insults.

[-:Undertaker:-]

LOL at the bit about their gf I like girls but on the tv if I see a guy, and he has cool hair I'm like OMG I want his hair, I'm not sure if that makes me bi :S

I dont mean to put you on a downer but erm that rather points to the fact you could be gay when you are older. I know its a common trait for teenagers who didnt realise/didnt want to realise they were gay and they just thought when they looked at a guy they did so because of his hair/clothes. That said; just wait until your older but do keep this in mind and dont worry about it.

[Gibs960]

So that could mean I'm gay? I've always thought it was just cos I like to have my hair nice. :S

[Nixt]

I dont mean to put you on a downer but erm that rather points to the fact you could be gay when you are older. I know its a common trait for teenagers who didnt realise/didnt want to realise they were gay and they just thought when they looked at a guy they did so because of his hair/clothes. That said; just wait until your older but do keep this in mind and dont worry about it.

I personally think that's ridiculous. Just because you think a bloke has nice hair and it would be cool to have your hair that way, it does not make you "possibly gay in the future".

[Kieran]

I'm gay and I hate it when people turn round and point out the obvious, so I give them **** back. Don't stand for it
Don't let them make you gay if that's not what you feel like.

[Shar]

So that could mean I'm gay? I've always thought it was just cos I like to have my hair nice. :S

aw don't work yourself up over this, it's a natural process your either gay or not, if you are you'll find out on your own sooner or later

[-:Undertaker:-]

No.

If you dont have any sexual attraction to boys or girls yet then you cannot tell. If you look at boys in that way, such as noticing 'cute' guys or guys with nice hair and so on then you could very well be gay as from what I have read around it seems the pretty common thing for gay lads who are confused to think when they are younger and later on they realise they actually are gay. Its very complicated although you seem young so dont worry about it.

I personally think that's ridiculous. Just because you think a bloke has nice hair and it would be cool to have your hair that way, it does not make you "possibly gay in the future".

No i'm not saying that, i'm saying he he notices lads a lot more then perhaps he likes them but doesnt 'realise' it. Its only what I have read anyway and went through myself, he could turn out 100% straight for all we know.