I want my ex back, is this the right way to go about it?

[Wig44.]

Yeah, anyway I just added her on Facebook.

I joined a group that said 'I want you back, I just dont know the way to go about it'

2 minutes later she joined the exact same one, obviosuly seeing I joined it. Now, this must be obvious to her that it means her because I have 14 friends on facebook which is family, as all my friends I speak to at school I deleted as I dont see the point in having them if I see them anyway.

ANYWAY, could this possibly mean anything?

Talk to her. If you can't tell if she is interested when talking to her face to face then you don't deserve to go out with any girls.

[Jordy]

Yeah, anyway I just added her on Facebook.

I joined a group that said 'I want you back, I just dont know the way to go about it'

2 minutes later she joined the exact same one, obviosuly seeing I joined it. Now, this must be obvious to her that it means her because I have 14 friends on facebook which is family, as all my friends I speak to at school I deleted as I dont see the point in having them if I see them anyway.

ANYWAY, could this possibly mean anything?

I honestly can't believe that liking a Facebook page can be so detrimental on a relationship. The amount of times I see people liking things just to have a dig at someone or hint at things, didn't realise it actually worked for some people

It's certainly a good sign but never look into things too much on Facebook. My ex accused me of getting together with some other girl, I asked her why she thought this and it was because she'd been liking my status's and tagged me in some photos, fgs it doesn't mean we're getting together.

[KyoraStryker]

Facebook/Myspace (Lol?)/Twitter are sure-fire ways to kill a relationship with someone. I've seen too many of my friends lose good relationships just because of their actions on it, ergo "liking" something on Facebook.

On topic: It may possibly mean something between you two. Push the envelope and find out. No harm in asking.

Do so, however, with a sense of caution. Wig said it best:

...sounds like you are getting too desperate, she will notice this.

[BlueEyedSarah]

Aproach her, tell her your sorry for the past then ask her if she wants to go out, stop hanging around with all this waiting nonsense and getting your friends to ask her for you because its pointless and will not get you anywhere, DO IT YOURSELF BEFORE ITS TOO LATE and you regret not doing anything before.

[Callum.]

4 years ago and you're still at school? you must have been like 12?

you can't just walk up to her like that, you gotta start from scratch again, friendship and see if anything comes from it.

[Rapidshare]

U treated her like ****, good thing she lied to you.

Probs smoked due to stress you gave her.

Every girl is to be treated like a princess mate.

[lRhyss]

Something simeler happened to me. I went out with a lass in year 7 and then after 8 months I finished her because of Family problems and rage. (Puberty) I dunno why I just did

we stayed friends untill year 10 when she just started to ignore my facebooks and msn's. eventuly I gave up and left her alone. a year passed and now Im in year 11 I had her best mate approach me starting a convo with ex's and stuff. With not been stupid. I Knew it was her trying to get to me. so I just said to her mate there and then. 'tell [NAME] this was a pathetic attempt' also I found this the perfect time to because frends with her because that day (Not because of that reson) I came out to my mates for like the first time. (Yes Im Gay get over it) so now she has an 'Ex, Gay, Best Mate ;')

[Wig44.]

U treated her like ****, good thing she lied to you.

Probs smoked due to stress you gave her.

Every girl is to be treated like a princess mate.

Uhuh, if you want to be her emotional tampon then sure, go ahead. If you want her to find you boring (giving someone what they want, not arguing, always submitting - it's really really boring) then go ahead. Or you could have fun with her. Joke to her and about her, don't take her or yourself so seriously, if she is too uptight and takes things too seriously then you can move on. There are hundreds like her and thousands better in your local area - guaranteed. Obviously I don't mean be an ******* but there is a reason why nice guys finish last.

[KyoraStryker]

Uhuh, if you want to be her emotional tampon then sure, go ahead. If you want her to find you boring (giving someone what they want, not arguing, always submitting - it's really really boring) then go ahead. Or you could have fun with her. Joke to her and about her, don't take her or yourself so seriously, if she is too uptight and takes things too seriously then you can move on. There are hundreds like her and thousands better in your local area - guaranteed. Obviously I don't mean be an ******* but there is a reason why nice guys finish last.

Another point well made. If you hit that "friend zone" with her, you can kiss whatever relationship you thought you'd get into with her goodbye. I'm sure someone else said the same thing I just did in an earlier post, but I can't be asked to find who. It's almost bedtime for me. >.>

[Rapidshare]

Noo..He admits he nasty to her.

Surely it not love if he calling her fat or whatever.

Suppose what he meant by being nasty to her anyways.