urr yeah...

[dbgtz]

basically im sure this year 9 girl in my tutor, urr, "likes" me and i have like noo idea what to do if i am approached on this...

im year 11 btw.

[hairpins]

run 4 cova xo
shes lyke 12 n yew r lyke 15 16
so rong on every level

[Nemo]

Yer the gap from year 9 to 11 is pretty massive, even though its only 2 years. Id jsut be like no ty and run away.

Unless she acts/looks a bit more grownup, then fair enough. But most girls in year 9 look like kids these days

[dbgtz]

born in january 97 (she was), not hard to forget considering she took up 2 days with "(name) party" surrounded by hearts, smiley faces and stars. Im in july 95. anyway thats besides the point.

hmm, if i were hypothetically to agree how would it be seen socially? i probably wont if i am.

edit: assuming she does approach, what do i actually say?

[Nemo]

born in january 97 (she was), not hard to forget considering she took up 2 days with "(name) party" surrounded by hearts, smiley faces and stars. Im in july 95. anyway thats besides the point.

hmm, if i were hypothetically to agree how would it be seen socially? i probably wont if i am.

edit: assuming she does approach, what do i actually say?

As far as socially, its really not seen as something great (from what ive seen/heard of atleast). I personally wouldnt give a damn but thats just me.

If she does approach you, then you should probably think about whether or not you actually want to get into a relationship with her and just act accordingly :p

[dbgtz]

if i was to say no what would i say...
its a bit different in the scenario cos i sit next to her in tutor so if i say the wrong thing ill be hated and get bored when the other person on my table is off also the fact of the age difference.

[Samantha]

You have tutor together, that's strange.

Well, when I was in year 11 a lot of boys in my year dated year 9's. Basically people followed the trend so you could either set her straight or follow the trend.

You have to realise 2 years isn't abig gap Tom, it only appears to be whilst you are in school.

Basically if you like her go for it, because I remember my ex, I was in year 10 he was in year 12, yeah someone called him a peado but, I liked him, so you shouldn't listen to anyone else really.

Go for what you feel is right, if you like her, then go for it, some year 9's a lot more mature than given credit for.
If you don't like her, tell her so, that way, she doesn't feel you are leading her on, and then she can get on with her life and find someone else.

[Blob]

Normally 2 years gap is fine - but anything out (e.g Year 8 with Year 11) is seemed as wrong. Girls normally go for older boys not in their year because they are more mature, so take it as a compliment and get in there

Also, what day in July? Your bday is near mine ;D

[dbgtz]

You have tutor together, that's strange.

Well, when I was in year 11 a lot of boys in my year dated year 9's. Basically people followed the trend so you could either set her straight or follow the trend.

You have to realise 2 years isn't abig gap Tom, it only appears to be whilst you are in school.

Basically if you like her go for it, because I remember my ex, I was in year 10 he was in year 12, yeah someone called him a peado but, I liked him, so you shouldn't listen to anyone else really.

Go for what you feel is right, if you like her, then go for it, some year 9's a lot more mature than given credit for.
If you don't like her, tell her so, that way, she doesn't feel you are leading her on, and then she can get on with her life and find someone else.

vertical tutoring & you know my name?

anyway thanks.

@above (forgot to quote lols) thanks also 15th

[Jessicrawrr]

You sort of like her back yes?
then go for it, don't worry what others think, 2 years is nothing.
You'd be a pedo if you was a lot older and she was that age.
just remember it's your choice, don't worry what others think.