Male trouble sadly

[Chris]

No way anyone should be treated like that! Give him the boot and then see how he feels.

[Narnat,]

A relationship isn't anything without both putting in the effort and it is clear that he isn't. I think it's disgusting what he does to you in front of his friends and he needs a good kick up the ass. I would say he isn't worth it and maybe use have become too distant. I would suggest try and talk to him but I think he seems violent with the way he was described. Good luck.

[hairpins]

maybe if hez onli been 2 yur house tht many timez cuz he dunt lyke ur parents or hez skared bi them
other than that he soundz quite normal PMSL?

if yew arent happi with him buy a cat or nail n bail

[Gibs960]

Leave him, he sounds like a ****!

You can do better!

And after all there is plenty-o-fish!

[Nicola]

Like others have said, talk to him about it. If he dismisses it or decides he isn't going to change then maybe he isn't right for you. You don't deserve to be treated like that and if he can't see that it is wrong then it's up to you to decide whether you want to leave him.

Maybe if you do leave him he'll realise what an idiot he was and he may change and things could work out for you two. Sometimes it takes losing something to realise what you really had.

[Macey]

Update:

Thankyou for all the replies guys! I spoke to him about it and he said I was over reacting, so I thought mhmm so ive just sat back abit and watched closely what happens next, I havent seen him alot again he cancelled our plans the other night to go to his mates house so I decided to go on a girly night out for a couple of drinks but then today he took me for a meal for an hour or two then went off god knows were again, hopefully I will see him tomorrow if not sometime next week! Confusing or what its asif he wants me when he can be bothered, but at same time we've been together for so long and have lived together thinking of life without him is impossible if that makes sense.

[Nemo]

Update:

Thankyou for all the replies guys! I spoke to him about it and he said I was over reacting, so I thought mhmm so ive just sat back abit and watched closely what happens next, I havent seen him alot again he cancelled our plans the other night to go to his mates house so I decided to go on a girly night out for a couple of drinks but then today he took me for a meal for an hour or two then went off god knows were again, hopefully I will see him tomorrow if not sometime next week! Confusing or what its asif he wants me when he can be bothered, but at same time we've been together for so long and have lived together thinking of life without him is impossible if that makes sense.

He knows he's got you wrapped around his finger. Your response to when he said that you were over reacting should have been "Well then we're finished", and frankly was what i was expecting. And by you not saying that, its made it even clearer to him that you feel like you need him (which you do since you even said it). i honestly think you've had enough of watching him and whatnot. You've clearly got an attachment for him whilst he just has you because he can (obviously likes/wants the sexual side, and doesnt care about your emotional side). Ditch him and get someone you deserve (eg. anyone else).

[FlyingJesus]

we've been together for so long and have lived together thinking of life without him is impossible if that makes sense.

This is what's known as "toxic love" and is not something you want to get tangled up in. I know all too well that it's not easy to let go when you've been with someone for a long time, but if it's not doing you any favours then staying in the relationship just because it's comfortable or you're used to it and don't want to have to deal with the changes afterwards is a very bad idea and will ultimately leave you far more damaged the longer it goes on

[kuzkasate]

No offence, but he acts like a **** towards you, but hey, you cant help who you like! If he said you was "over reacting" then give him the silent treatment for a few days and act kinda cold with him, look at how he reacts. If he really loves you he will apologise and try make it up to you, if he doesnt, he will just be like "dya know what, cba." I think he feels as if he "owns" you (not sure if thats the right word to use) but basically, he feels as if hes in control of you, he can make jokes and stuff, but tbh, thats not jokes. If he literally takes the piss out of you infront of his mates, that is abuse.