Yh good luck!I'm sure you will be fine.

Yh good luck!I'm sure you will be fine.
"There's always going to be another mountain.
I'm always going to want to make it move".
It's beauitful
@DPS congrats jord :} just think if it's a lil boy you can take him to play football & stuff, teach your kid stuff like how to ride a bike and go swimming kids are the best thing in the worldgoooooood luck
All you can do is try and provide for her & be as good a dad to your future son/daughter, it'd be hard to give the kid stability given the circumstances you're in but I think you'll know what to do. Nobodys good at being a dad naturally though, and alot of people wish they did have a child so don't take it for granted... which I'm sure you won't anyway![]()
I would much rather a young girl who cannot give a baby the support it needs aborted said baby than wait, give birth to it and put it up for adoption. Chances are, it would spend it's childhood in homes rather than get adopted. This can be a pretty horrible way to start your life, lots of people (don't have stats) who are brought up this way can have issues (in some cases serious issues) after and during childhood, including dying very young. I know you are of the opinion that we cannot make choices for anyone else but I don't think it is right to bring a baby into the world under such circumstances, only for it to have a crap life. I'll add that I don't believe a foetus that is young enough to be aborted counts as a human anyway.Well i'm glad you don't seem to be taking the route of killing the unborn based on your own mistakes. If push comes to shove and you both cannot handle it, then you should put the baby up for adoption as opposed to simply aborting a child which is here purely based on your own mistakes and not its own. I wish you both well though along with the child.
(This isn't related to the OP's situation, sounds like he'll be a great dad, it's a response to Undertaker)
Congrats, I'm sure you'll be a great dad![]()
~ "Difference is brilliant, difference is what makes this world"
Congratulations and good luck, I hope all goes well for you because you seem like a really nice person and its nice that you still want to support her and everything.![]()
wow! I wish I had the same mind-set as you do 3weeks ago...
You don't have to be together to support a child... My mum and dad split when I was 11 or twelve cant remember and they are both still friends etc...
I wish you both the best of luck, u seem like you'll be a good dad
Thanks guys, ill probs keep posting in this thread as the progress goes on![]()
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