Ex-girlfriend issues...

[MKR&*42]

Mhm,

K, so me and my ex-gf broke up like.. 2 and a half years ago and agreed to stay friends (after a long... "Argument"). Then the problem appeared...

She starts making hints (incredibly obvious hints) 2 years ago, that she wants to start dating again (We went out 4 times..k) and she almost asked until I was quick and diverted the conversation to something else. She didn't ask me out, but then she started flirting with me. Of course, I'm flattered that someones flirting with me but... I didn't want to date again - and I clearly told her this.

She found another boyfriend like.. 1 and a half years ago? So I thought, "Thank Gosh, go annoy him now" and I thought it was working - she definitely wasn't flirting with me...whilst she was around him x_X.

So, basically - when she's around me she's flirting consistently and it's such a pain in the ***. I do everything I can to try and deter her from me, but it does not work - it just gets worse and worse :S

Oh, and now apparently.. she's told her bf that I constantly 'Grope her' (Which is absolute ********), unless tapping someones shoulder means I'm grabbing her breasts? And apparently her bf said "If he keeps doing it, I'll get my mates and beat the **** out of him" and something about baseball bats. That's not much of an issue, I'll stand up to myself if anyone thinks they can try beat the **** outta me.

Also.. she constantly stares at my crotch (yet again-thanks for compliment..but you have a bf), she's stroked my crotch.. and it's apparently "an accident", when it blatantly isn't - who accidently places their hand on someones crotch whilst looking at their hand?

To sum up: Wth do I do about her flirting -I can't tell her to stop - it doesn't work, and I don't want to rage at her over it, because we see each other every day at school x_x.

Ye, any advice

Oh, I forgot to mention - She's engaged. No, she genuinely is - she got engaged at 14 to her current bf.. Yes I really am being serious :S

[Inseriousity.]

Give her an ultimatium: stop flirting/groping or we can no longer be friends. If she does value your friendship she should stop. If not then I think you should distance yourself from her. It's just not worth the aggro imo.

[Ostinato]

Tell your asexual and not attracted to her - isn't that the truth?

[MKR&*42]

Tell your asexual and not attracted to her - isn't that the truth?

I don't think she's looking for sex at 15 xL

If she is..k then.

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K , hold on you could be right - after the whole crotch thing.

My apologies.

(I think she's had sex with her current bf anyway...)

[Ostinato]

I don't think she's looking for sex at 15 xL

If she is..k then.

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K , hold on you could be right - after the whole crotch thing.

My apologies.

(I think she's had sex with her current bf anyway...)

Well if she had sex with her current boyfriend I would imagine she probs would be up for sex with someone else? :S and 15 is hardly a shocking age to have sex at in this day in age anymore.

[DPS]

How olds the person shes engaged too ... LOL

[dbgtz]

One thinks one may be exaggerating with ones imagination.

[MKR&*42]

How olds the person shes engaged too ... LOL

16 atm I think... or 17.

One thinks one may be exaggerating with ones imagination.

Not really, she eventually told everyone and she had 'the ring' and he confirmed it.

If they decided to lie... well, they kinda achieved nothing :L

[dbgtz]

16 atm I think... or 17.



Not really, she eventually told everyone and she had 'the ring' and he confirmed it.

If they decided to lie... well, they kinda achieved nothing :L

I wasn't referring to engagement, I know someone who was when they were 15 so...

[velvet]

i was gunna give you a serious reply then i realised you were 15 n it would be a waste of time
tell her to go annoy someone else