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  1. #21
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kayla: View Post
    He's done it in the past, recently, and might do it again, most likely he will.
    I am going to report this actually. I don't wanna see anything harmful happen to anyone innocent.
    You nor the police have the justification to meddle in someones life when they are not harming others, without their consent. Also you sound about 12.

    Anyway I don't think a GP is necessarily the best answer, chances are they if they do anything, they'll just shove you on drugs (my mum has some mental illness for years and she has been put on a list for counselling). You should just learn to live with it to be quite honest or get over it, and I know it isn't that easy. However people hate things about themselves all the time. And at the seeing the bad things in people, I do the same and I do hate it, but at the same time I use the criticism to aid people. You sound exactly like me except for the whole suicide thing as never have I even considered that. Life is great and if you have the chance to live it, you should. I have seen people who cannot live life to the full due to conditions. Some guy couldn't stop screaming, it was as if he was in pain but you could see there was nothing physically wrong. I have seen a child who has been in hospital since birth and a mother stand by her side. I have seen a child with mental problems (downsyndrome or something) and problems with her bones which require her to have operations constantly in order to "repair" her. So while you may hate yourself because of slight imperfections (which occur in everyone), you fail to see people are far worse off and the fact you have been gifted with chance, and what is the point in wasting it because you are yourself and healthy, capable to do what others can't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kayla: View Post
    Staff should report this to the police.
    Just for your own good.
    I sure hope they do.
    They do have your IP.
    Wouldn't work, this is the Internet, half the people saying they slit are lying.

    And it's not a case of 'oh I know your IP i can do something', alot of people use proxies and such to alter their IP, and even if they didn't with an IP you can't track someone to their house etc, you'd need to get the information from ISP, which would probably be denied.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BamitsElfie! View Post
    Remember, lovies, that telling Warren he's a crazy demented freak certainly won't boost his self-esteem and definitely won't stop any self-harm he may inflict on himself. He came asking for help and this is what he gets?!

    (No offense to any of the constructive and helpful comments )

    errrrrrr what?! ...........

    i don't understand your point lol :S


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    I think what you have had is a relapse and it's normal. I totally understand what your going through and how you must be feeling and why your turning to Self Injury. If I'm being honest the reality is that if your wanting to stop then your going to have to make the effort only YOU can control your emotions. It also helps if you start off the daypositively. If you feel that you can't control yourself and your slipping into the routine of self harming then I would speak to someone about it.




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    Dude, if you ever need to speak to anyone about anything, any thoughts or whatever, just PM me. My girlfriend has been going through the same thing for a long time now, and i've gone through every step with her to make sure she's safe and alright. She hates herself, her body and her personality, but I don't. Not even a little bit. Hopefully this'll give you an understanding that your thoughts on yourself are just a lie that nobody else sees.

    You're not alone, and as I said - if you ever need to speak about anything, then just contact me buddy. I do understand what you're going through.
    i'm out of touch, i'm out of love
    i'll pick you up when you're getting down
    and out of all these things i've done
    i think i love you better now

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    I think you should pick something you're good at, for example some people pick either sports or website coding. Pick something, and then praise yourself when you've completed a project or won a game.
    You could also motivate yourself to do better, there is some part in your brain called fight ro flight and it's kinda like this situation. You flight from the problem and that is the slitting of your wrists. However if you motivate yourself to do better, feel better and be more happy, you'll feel happier! Even if it's a smile to a stranger etc

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    I think it's mostly a mindset thing. There are people you'll know and you'll be like 'omg why are they so happy all the time?!' and the truth is they see a problem and come at it from a different perspective or viewpoint. So you'll be faced with a problem and you'll see the pessimistic side of it and you'll have a constant cycle of 'I can't so I won't because I can't so I won't because I can't and so on' I think an easy way to solve this is to write a list. Every time you write something bad about yourself, you have to write something good before you can write the next bad thing. People who think pessimisticly about themselves tend to think when faced with this challenge 'oh i could write 50 bad things about myself' so writing a good thing in between is a challenge that makes them think of things in a different perspective.

    I hope everything goes okay for you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dbgtz View Post
    You nor the police have the justification to meddle in someones life when they are not harming others, without their consent. Also you sound about 12.

    Anyway I don't think a GP is necessarily the best answer, chances are they if they do anything, they'll just shove you on drugs (my mum has some mental illness for years and she has been put on a list for counselling). You should just learn to live with it to be quite honest or get over it, and I know it isn't that easy. However people hate things about themselves all the time. And at the seeing the bad things in people, I do the same and I do hate it, but at the same time I use the criticism to aid people. You sound exactly like me except for the whole suicide thing as never have I even considered that. Life is great and if you have the chance to live it, you should. I have seen people who cannot live life to the full due to conditions. Some guy couldn't stop screaming, it was as if he was in pain but you could see there was nothing physically wrong. I have seen a child who has been in hospital since birth and a mother stand by her side. I have seen a child with mental problems (downsyndrome or something) and problems with her bones which require her to have operations constantly in order to "repair" her. So while you may hate yourself because of slight imperfections (which occur in everyone), you fail to see people are far worse off and the fact you have been gifted with chance, and what is the point in wasting it because you are yourself and healthy, capable to do what others can't.

    Police can though.

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    I've walked in on my sister doing the same, It's not worth it. I first slit my wrist when I was 10, I was uber-depressed. Get atherapist It helps a lot , I swear.. I just hung out with my mates, and got one, It was better almostinstantly.
    Never to young to donate. [First Donated to a site when I was 9]
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    Like girls? Me to..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kayla: View Post
    Police can though.
    Never said they couldn't, I said it's not justified in my opinion.

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