What's the greatest pain you've ever felt?

Walks06 · 18-05-2012, 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by Choco

that must be so hard for you.

my older brother never felt emotion till last year, he was told by this girl he just had a thing with that he was having a daughter, the mother wanted him to be in its life, then changed. my brother wanted to die. he never had a connection like the one he was fighting for, and his whole world has crashed down, the one thing he wanted was grabbed from him, the mother is mentally unstable but social workers and courts thinks shes fine when she's been admitted to hospital, and she has these strange anger sessions, she doesn't want my bother to see his daughter. she was born on my birthday so we had a connection a special family thing, now it doesn't mean anything... in someway he's lost a child too.

So sorry to read that man, yeah it's painful.. your brother can surely go through the courts for access tho can he not?? If he wants it enough and by what you say sounds like he does more then anything he can make it happen. People that refuse access for no good reason sicken me

Jssy · 18-05-2012, 10:18 PM

physical: getting my belly pierced cos i flinched and also got stabbed with the needle above my stomach lol & also when my wisdom tooth was growing under an infected tooth and pushing it that was a mother bobba and it got taken out and after the anaesthetic wore off, oh my...

**dbgtz** · 18-05-2012, 10:29 PM

I think seeing the sadness of those I know and care for. For example, I just looked at someone the other day who appeared down and it just "hit me" shall I say. I can deal with the physical pains.

Choco · 19-05-2012, 12:52 AM

Originally Posted by Walks06

So sorry to read that man, yeah it's painful.. your brother can surely go through the courts for access tho can he not?? If he wants it enough and by what you say sounds like he does more then anything he can make it happen. People that refuse access for no good reason sicken me

yeah my brother has lawyers involved and court but its all slowed down, my brother didn't want the mother to have his daughter because she was really unstable, he just wanted his daughter to have a the best stability it could, but there's a man involved and hes abusive and stuff so it makes everything complex, i have never even seen her,its been almost a year, when my dad phoned the social workers they didn't even care they were like "it's my day off" because the environment the baby was being brought up in was so bad, what was it my niece fell off the side of the sofa shes not even 8 months old yet, and the mother wasn't bothered and her boyfriend just laughed. and omg it makes me so annoyed. but i'm sorry you had to go through what you did.

kirstenxo · 19-05-2012, 01:37 AM

physically when i got my false eyelash in the wrong place and glued my eyelids together lol.

also when my horsey buttercup died, it hurt my heart a lot. lol.