Are people born gay or is it a free choice?

[sex]

I think the main factor is how you were brought up. Eg if you're a boy brought up to do tap dancing or something, then the chances are you'll end up gay.
I personally believe that homophobia is also partially how you were brought up. Parents teach kids loads without actually realising it. I think it's also due to them being uncomfortable around gay people. Perhaps because they are in denial themselves, or because the gay people are happier than the homophobic person, so they're jealous.
Apparantly there's some sort of gay gene that scienctists are investigating. Not too sure if they've proved/disproved this yet, but I'd be interested to find out!
Of course it's acceptable to be homosexual. If it makes you happy, then who really cares? If people judge you for being homosexual, then skrew them, is what I say!

are you actually serious LMAO
doing things does like make you gay
just because you do tap dancing doesnt mean you are going to be suddenly attracted the men
this is so stupid it hurts lol

[Cerys]

are you actually serious LMAO
doing things does like make you gay
just because you do tap dancing doesnt mean you are going to be suddenly attracted the men
this is so stupid it hurts lol

That was only an example - don't take it to heart. What I'm saying is it's the environment that effects it. I was just giving a stereotypical example so even the dumbest of people could understand. Clearly there's people dumber out there.

[sex]

That was only an example - don't take it to heart. What I'm saying is it's the environment that effects it. I was just giving a stereotypical example so even the dumbest of people could understand. Clearly there's people dumber out there.

Yes and you must be one of them, im not taking it to heart i just found it hilarious that you think this. I was brought up the exact same way as all my brothers yet they are not gay. please stop ur wrong lol

[Cerys]

Yes and you must be one of them, im not taking it to heart i just found it hilarious that you think this. I was brought up the exact same way as all my brothers yet they are not gay. please stop ur wrong lol

Wait! What's that? Oh look. On the first post it says '[Remember, this is your opinion!]'
So ya know... I'm not gonna stop. :3

[sex]

Wait! What's that? Oh look. On the first post it says '[Remember, this is your opinion!]'
So ya know... I'm not gonna stop. :3

well in this case your opinion is wrong. i dont care what you say lol

[LiquidLuck.]

I think enviroonment doesn't really matter as I know someone that for example, had all the family not really liking bi or gay people, and his own friends too, and he turned out to be bi.

I always thought as me being 100% straight, until my girl friend kissed me out of the blue, and I'm not sure anymore. But until that, I was always ONLY into guys. Still am, I guess. S: You aren't born with anything telling you to be straight or gay. Life will let you find out.

[Cerys]

well in this case your opinion is wrong. i dont care what you say lol

Well I really don't give two craps then xox

[Empired]

I think enviroonment doesn't really matter as I know someone that for example, had all the family not really liking bi or gay people, and his own friends too, and he turned out to be bi.

I always thought as me being 100% straight, until my girl friend kissed me out of the blue, and I'm not sure anymore. But until that, I was always ONLY into guys. Still am, I guess. S: You aren't born with anything telling you to be straight or gay. Life will let you find out.

This is an interesting point actually. Experience must play a factor as well. Like someone saying "I hate singing in public" when they haven't even done it before couldn't really say that because they have no real idea, but then if they went out to sing in front of hundreds of people but then all of a suddenly it went fantastically, of course their opinion would change. I'd never thought of this before

[dbgtz]

are you actually serious LMAO
doing things does like make you gay
just because you do tap dancing doesnt mean you are going to be suddenly attracted the men
this is so stupid it hurts lol

I'd say she's sort of right. Considering most tap dancers are likely be girls, I think the influence from them could influence your sexuality in future. Saying that if all tap dancers were boys, I think you would most likely be straight. That's my opinion any way.

[The Don]

well in this case your opinion is wrong. i dont care what you say lol

ignore cerys, she can't admit when she's wrong/lied

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