okay i have a problem

[-Nick]

Play flirty with another guy... Tell him there was never anything brewing

[Niall!]

he's seen me in some right states it's amazing he still likes me
just tweeted me that he was outside my door. not sure if lyrics...... sitting in a dark room right now ******** my pants
cause leading someone on (which i didn't) means they can be creepy as hell?

Er, call the police jen. This guy is going to murder you or worse.

[Fawnicate]

Do Seinfeld's famous "pick."

[Demi]

I think you should invite him for a coffee or whatever one day, in a public place, to talk about it. Be honest, it's the best and only way.

My ex still stalks me now but the Police are involved and my life is so much easier.

However, you obviously enjoyed the attention and heck everybody does! Seriously though, if he can't leave you alone talk to your friends about it, talk to everyone you trust about it, little hints here and there will help.
On the other hand he's 32, he is probably in the age gap that he wants something serious and he's latching on to you and thinking that it will happen.

There is no easy way, you will have to let him down the hard way or no way.

[A4R0N]

jennyjukes m8 ily

Edited by Lee (Forum Super Moderator): Please don't post pointlessly.

[DryRash]

He really has a thing for you, It sounds harsh but you have to tell him straight in the face your not that bothered with him, Yeah you will still talk and have a drink with him like you said, But he needs to let go and move on try another girl because he has no point in trying if he has been trying that hard and your still not bothered so obviously he should of realised by now that your not interesting in him, His friends kind of make it worse trying to encourage you but if a women has said no, She has said no, Im believe you and me I learnt that off my Girl Friend D: -Scary-

My advice is crap but take it in note, Tell him and tell him and if he carries on ignore him, If your friends ask why, Just say what happened, Im sure if their friends the'll understand!

[Richie]

This is coming from me.. a man that knows nothing in regards to relationships..

Poems? He needs to get a grip. I always thought things like poems make me cringe. He's 31, you may have led him on but you've also told him straight out it'll never happen. He seems desperate for love. If I were you I'd just block him and let people ask questions, I know it sounds like a terrible thing to do BLOCK SOMEONE ON THE INTERNET but in all seriousness, if he doesn't get the point, make it clearer by removing him from everything


wow i'm a heartless ****

[kuzkasate]

he sounds like the sort of guy who will never give up, so what you need to do is be a bit blunt and actually, be rude as well but say something along the lines of 'look, you're really starting to annoy me now, i don't like you and im sorry but i will never be able to go out with you and if you don't stop, then we will stop talking for good and we won't even be friends' so like kinda give him an ultimatum, either stay friends and shut up about it and move on, or get lost. you should tell your friends/his friends that are trying to force you into this relationship to **** off, just be a bit rude as well and say you don't like him at all and it's really starting to piss you off and upset you - they'll get the message, there's nothing else you can really do you just need to make sure everyone gets the message. it doesn't mean you're heartless or selfish at all, it's your life and they are your decisions, otherwise you might as well get an arranged marriage but GOOD LUCK TELL ME HOW IT GOES

[buttons]

On the other hand he's 32, he is probably in the age gap that he wants something serious and he's latching on to you and thinking that it will happen.

this exactly. we all think this is the reason for it but we try to set him up with people more his age and he's not interested.
anyway i protected my tweets and unfollowed him. haven't heard of him saying anything to anyone about it yet and there's been nothing said by him so he either hasn't noticed or just doesn't give a ****. i went to tell one friend that i'd deleted him and she was "oooh talking about him again". ridiculous. then she started texting him asking him to come out with us when i said no and telling him i was there so he should come out urgh. i did tell her i'm serious about it and to stop it and she's said okay.

think part of me just loved the attention and didn't want to tell him to go away cause finally someone likes me even in the states he's seen me in etc but mehhh. it's not right.

think it's all sorted... for now. if he does come back harassing me i know it's serious and won't be scared to tell him to **** off.
thanks guys, +rep

[Metric1]

get free stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he sounds like a pred tho