Some of you need to honestly grow up, yeah so what she flashed.. i can tell you this, most of the girls and boys on here have probs done it too, and dont say no because i know rather alot that have.
Her flashing is not the point that just started it off for her this is what you guys aint reading into.
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13-10-2012, 10:54 AM #32
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Develop a bit?
Originally Posted by Celtix
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what i dont understand is how he found her!?!
the only thing stronger than fear is hope
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13-10-2012, 12:27 PM #34
To all of you who are saying that she's just attention seeking or that she's lying or that it's not that big a deal, I almost agreed with you.
But then I looked her up on Google Images. I suggest you do the same, if you can.
Warning: Mildly disturbing
Even though I'll admit the video didn't really bother me, I can't stand how people are making jokes at a girl who felt so alone to kill herself.
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13-10-2012, 01:14 PM #35
I don't really see what's wrong with flashing? I've done it with my friends and nobody said **** to us and we were her age at the time. It really shows that all the people bullying her were clearly jealous of her!! About her getting with a guy who had a girlfriend it's really understandable, when you feel crap about yourself all you wanna do is feel loved and would jump at the chance if someone shows any interest in you. Surely I'd imagine most people have felt that before? I don't see why a large amount of blame was put on the guy, considering he was the one with a girlfriend. It really disgusts me that people are still putting rude comments on her video, she's dead leave it to rest. She's not the first girl to make one of those videos and afterwards kill herself, it's becoming common now. I'd imagine she just felt like this was her last chance, for someone to find the video and be able to actually help her. I just think it's crazy how it all seemed to stem from her flashing, yes she was young but it's not something to bully someone over.
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13-10-2012, 01:44 PM #36
@laura; To start with, Amanda was just telling people she was cutting herself. I totally see how you can call that attention-seeking. I can see how you're calling the video attention-seeking...
But then she took her own life. Have you not noticed this? If she was doing this purely for the attention, I would assume that she'd want to stay around for it. It's so much harder to be conscious of attention when you're dead.
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14-10-2012, 09:26 PM #37
I watched this video yesterday and it annoyed me so much. I was severely bully for 3 years, got beaten up, death threats, constant rumors being spread about me, nasty name etc etc and I kept it too myself for 2 of the 3 years because I was scared that someone would judge me and I didn't want people to know I was weak, I also contemplated suicide but never did it. Anyway it annoyed me because you wouldn't tell the entire world (sort of) if you were being bullied because you make yourself vulnerable to the stuff that happened to her. Like many have said its her own fault things got so far, if she had told someone what was happening instead of making a youtube video something would have been done and solved, cause after I told someone it got solved, yes it got worse because I told but after a few months it got better.
Suicide is never the answer and the thing is, people are making it look glamorised which is making more people want to lie about such things and possibly even start cutting themselves
Its just so wrong, yes its saddening to see it get that far, but I coped with it, why can't anyone else?
sorry if you find this rude or it doesn't make sense I'm ranting *+*
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Edited by GoldenMerc (Forum Moderator ) Please do not be rude to other forum members
Last edited by GoldenMerc; 15-10-2012 at 01:27 PM.
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15-10-2012, 11:00 AM #40
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I just saw the video today, and didn't exactly get to see all of it, but yeah, I kinda understand what laura said in a way, though some of it I do disagree with.
When someone is thinking of committing suicide or cutting...you really just don't tell anyone, because if your serious about doing it, why would you? So, yeah, maybe Amanda did do it a little bit for attention. I can understand why people would think she would. And then loads of girls do seem to be doing this kind of thing on Youtube nowadays, I've certainly seen quite a few myself, some maybe not be about suicide, but certainly depression ect. which is not too nice to see. Sure enough, if you've beaten depression or thought of committing suicide and done a Youtube video on how they overcome their depression ect. I personally think thats fine. You know..your giving inspiration to people out there who are in the situation you were in.
But then..some people are giving talking down about her for committing suicide in the first place which I think is absolutely horrible and real disrespectful. She obviously had problems that she couldn't face which resulted to her thinking the only way out would be to commit suicide. Some of the Youtubers that posted comments mentioned how they had felt bullied before and still do, but they would never ever even think of committing suicide, and that Amanda was real stupid for giving up her life. Well, you know what? Maybe she wasn't as strong as all them people, maybe she just couldn't find a way out. That's what happens some times and it's a real shame, and I hope now that wherever she is, she's a lot happier. But gees. A teenage girl lost her life. I think we should all be more respectful and just leave it at that.
RIP Amanda! I'm so sorry this happened to you.
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