He said he loves me :|

[Teabags]

baring in mind this guy has influenced her into losing her virginity with him. you can tell right away he had it planned all along. you cant just say ''it just happened'' after two weeks, that'd be like going into the big brother house a virgin, getting along with someone for two weeks, and then ''it just happening'' unfortunately it doesn't happen like that. he must have pushed it for it to go that way.

And also buttons is right, your probally gonna end up with someone who is very clingy, controlling and for you to worry about what he is saying you must be very uncomfortable to hear it. tell him, then tell him to get lost. what a loser.

I can't see why you really don't like this guy? You're really aggressive and all he has done is said that he's falling for her a little.
It does not mean anything like he's totally manipulative and he's had some kind of master plan all along. If anything, it proves he's not in a relationship for sexual gratification at all.

You seem to have an aura of 'bible bashing' about you but against sex. It's okay to say that you love someone, it's not taboo.

[RyRy]

He's probably not falling in love with you, its infatuation! Easy mistake to make.

[Empired]

Why are people shouting about this guy being evil?? All he said was 'I love you'!! The word Love means different things to everyone. Everyone says OMG I LOVE THIS GAME all the time. Does that tie you to the game for life?? Obviously not.

If you like this guy, stick with it. Go at your own pace and let him go at his. If something's troubling you, tell him. If he genuinely does love you, he'll want to sort it out.

[Catchy]

You should really talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication is key.

[lawrawrrr]

Only read half the thread before I got annoyed at the replies. It's ridiculous to try and label him with 'other guys' because he is his own person. About the virginity thing, I support you exactly when you say it's your choice - who cares how long you've been with someone? If you're ready, you're ready.

Anyway for the love thing, a lot of people do prematurely say it. Don't feel pressured into saying it back, if he confronts you and asks WHY you aren't saying it back, just say "I don't feel ready to say something like that yet", because if he really does (think he) loves you then he won't mind and will wait. Although I do agree 2 weeks is a very short time to fall in love, I do think it's possible, but it's probably more likely he is infatuated, an emotion a lot of people confuse with love (not that it can't develop into love, most times I believe it does).

[DamienMarj]

Lol if you knew me you'd realise how stupid you sound.

I guess I do in a way, I apologize

[Glen Coco]

he is not in love with you and for anybody to say that he is ''falling in love with you'' is ignorant. he is just a child at heart and im sorry you lost your virginity in a stupid way, ive never heard of it ''just happening'' leave him, you're find more casual with someone else. if i was with someone who was a virgin, i wouldnt just let it happen. it'd have to be about 4-5 months of being with them. i have more repect like that you see.

who the hell are you to judge her.

[Conspiracy.]

I'm 21 and he's 22. I kind of knew him in school. We have been talking/hanging out properly about 3/4 weeks before getting together.

[RyRy]

I'm 21 and he's 22. I kind of knew him in school. We have been talking/hanging out properly about 3/4 weeks before getting together.

Have you spoken to him since you've heard all this, and is he still saying he loves you? I mean has he said it again in conversation since he last said it?

[Charz777]

I personally find it hard to see why anyone would have sex after 2 weeks. But that's just my opinion and I'm not here to judge. As for 'I love you,' just no. Pah, it makes me laugh. You cannot love someone after two weeks. You hardly know a person in two weeks. Does this guy know what love is? When you adore almost everything about them and you accept and cherish the differences? Where you have complete and utter trust and understanding? Where they are the most important thing in your life? I could go on but all I have to say is this guy doesn't love you, he has no idea what love is by the sounds. He's obviously saying it because he got in your pants and wants to keep it that way.