Rebound Relationships

[Yawn]

no bloody way, they just want someone so they aint be hurting!!!!!!

yh but dalty dont care he just wants some pounding

[Samantha]

Me and my ex broke up and then I got a new boyfriend really quickly, regardless of being with the first one for 21 months. To me the current one didn't seem like a rebound and 5 months later we're still happy, nor did my current boyfriend think of it as a rebound, it was just a better relationship. However, some people do think that it was a rebound, but it's been proven that it isn't - it always depends really, I've never had a rebound relationship nor have I been the rebound and I think that if both people know it's just rebound then it isn't as bad. For me though I prefer proper relationships.

[Demi]

Everyone needs a rebound.

[GoldenMerc]

Never works, done it a few times and its just a way to make your ex jelous... mean also on the person your doing it with

[lawrawrrr]

I think that one of the best ways to let off post-relationship steam is to go for a rebound but it's not right for everyone. When I did it I just got sadder, even when I was the one who wanted to break up more than the boyfriend at the time. For some people, it works, especially when you've already 'got over' your partner a bit but idk.

Besides when does a new relationship become not a rebound? Is there a time limit? It's just too difficult to objectively explain as it's a subject which is so subjective.

[Teabags]

@Daltron updates!
hope it all worked out whatever.

[Daltron]

@Daltron updates!
hope it all worked out whatever.

Well I am going through with it haha, we just made sure we both know what this is. All good

---------- Post added 03-05-2013 at 01:55 PM ----------

Thanks for all the advice everyone!

[Rachel]

It's good and bad situation. You cannot expect someone breaking up with someone and be able to love the other person just a quick. Some people can take time to recover and sometimes they just find it hurts to much so they break up and wants to be alone for a while. Just do what is best for you x

[BlooBanana]

Some ways good some bad :S, I've been with my BF for 4 years and we are very serious, but If we broke up I have no doubt in my mind I'd try to get with someone else to make him jealous. Because I know if we broke up tomorrow It wouldn't be what I want, and as selfish as it is I'd want him to make him realise **** what have I done. I've done it once before to him and he got jealous, but I think if I done it again there would be a huge chance of him telling me to get lost. I think because I've been with him so long I'd hate to be alone, so thats another reason to get on a rebound.

[Rixion]

Bad from my experience as I was the one that got with the girl after she broke up and then they just drew closer together again, which evidently sucked. Not that this always happens.