I can't say I can as I've not experienced it. If I did have a disabled child I would love it as I would love a "normal" one because after all it would be my own.

I can't say I can as I've not experienced it. If I did have a disabled child I would love it as I would love a "normal" one because after all it would be my own.
i wouldn't abort because u hear those stories that people are told their kids will be disabled but then they come out completely fine. if i had to take care of a kid 24/7 until i died, cleaning its nappies or giving it oxygen every so hours, i couldn't do it. autism and w.e i could handle but not extreme physical disabilities and probably not Down syndrome as comes with physical and mental impairments. it's kinda hard to tell though because what if your child is born perfectly healthy then at the age of 4 or 12 or even 20 they're in an accident which renders them physically disabled and requiring around the clock care, what then?
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I don't think I could personally, I think that you would need to have a good tolerance level. I couldn't handle seeing someone in that situation in pain either, they have different problems and it must really hurt them somewhat.
Well since I like guys I probably would only adopt and I wouldn't adopt a disabled child simply because it would be too stressful for me, but if for some reason I had a child with someone naturally and it was disabled I would attempt to adapt to the situation the best I can.
I would definitely abort the child tbh assuming I found out early enough. obviously if it was too late I'd just stick them up for adoption though as I just know I wouldn't be able to cope and aborting them is probably fairest really if it's a really horrible disability, though if it wasn't such a bad one that would make their life awful I dunno really though I still don't personally see them as alive during the time you can abort them
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i wouldn't adopt a kid with those problems, no.i'm not sure if i'd be able to cope with down syndrome either, so i'd probably abort it.
i can barely take care of myself so. autism i could probably handle, or atleast i'd try.
y'all should ask your parents how they managed
of course it would be hypocrtical of me not to cos i am rly disabled irl
In my opinion abort is never a solution. You're thinking about your comfort... It's hard to take care of a disable child... God give it [baby] a life and you abort for your comfort is NOT right... Get able and teach this kid with love. That's what matter.
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